ive been in a relationship for 8 months with a married man we are very happy together but his wife found out about us a week before he was going to leave and has said she will never let him see thier son again if he leaves to be with me! he is scared incase she means it,im english but he is asian we work away together for long periods of time so we have had a 'normal' relationship for the most part as it is usually just the two of us,but now im finding it hard to cope as we are thousands of miles apart and he is too fiightend to leave her,should i just give up and move on?
2006-08-24 10:11:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
....i'm sorry...are you infact stating that you are proud to be having an affair with someone else's husband?
It's my opinion that you seriously need to look at your life. It's NEVER okay to be with another woman's husband. Never. That's wrong in so many ways.
You should NEVER have been with this man to start with in my opinion. Thee are so many other men in the world, why do you need or feel the need to be with someones husband.
The Hand of the Lord be upon you.
2006-08-24 10:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by Pastors Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away. Get on with your life. He will NEVER leave his wife. If he wanted to, he would have already. He's had a fling and you were his victim. I am sorry to be harsh but please wake up. Let him go, don't answer his calls or his email. Cut it off immediately and don't look back. You said he's "afraid" to leave his wife?
What kind of "MAN" is he??? Mark my words if you don't, he'll continue to make excuses for why he's not leaving her. Honey, he wants his cake and eat it too. He's used you so be angry enough to move on and up. Be strong. Hold your head up. There's a great guy out there for you and you'll find him and be glad you dumped the wimpy married man.
Good LUCK
2006-08-24 17:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by Janet P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u actually know for certain that his wife has found out? Maybe it's his way of ending the relationship. To be honest you can't really trust what a guy says who cheats on his wife for 8 months.
You have to be strong and move on even though you will hurt for a while.
My tip for you next time go for a single guy and don't sleep with him till you meet his close friends and family. If you meet them then you know he repects you.
2006-08-24 17:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's never good to be a homewrecker, the "third-party", the mistress, or whatever else they call it.
Don't be with a married man. I'm sure there are lots of single good men out there for you.
Also, his son needs his dad. don't let a boy grow up without one.
move on , and find a better man.
In my opinion, once a cheater always a cheater.
What makes you think he won't cheat with another woman once he's with you?
2006-08-24 17:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you get involved with a married man? If he will cheat on his wife, won't he cheat on you. The wife is reacting as any heart broken woman would. If i were you , i would step out of the relationship until things are finalized and then, if it is meant to be, resume the relationship.
2006-08-24 17:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by Madam SupaStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all he's married and has a child with her. 2nd she can't keep him from seeing his son, he does have rights and the courts will inforce them. 3rd, if he loved you he would have left his wife a long time ago, been a man told her the truth instead of lying and sneaking around. I'm sure that he tells her the same **** he tells you. You both need to dump the jerk!
2006-08-24 17:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by miz piz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the history of the world, there are very few men who have left their wives for a girlfriend. If he does not mind cheating on his wife and kid, why would he hesitate to cheat on you. Drop him now and find someone who is single.
2006-08-24 17:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by united9198 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe now is the right time, because you asked you asked this quesition. Remember, if you give a guy any hope, they'll stick around. If you want to let him go, have no connection with him until it's done. Otherwise, hill be around you trying to reconnect. **** luck.
2006-08-24 17:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by revolou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him to sort his marriage out no-one should come before your kids, its his responsibility to make sure he is there for his son no matter what that takes. why did it take him 8months to leave his wife he should have left as soon as he cheated, his wife had a right to know before now. move on.
2006-08-24 17:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by muffinplattsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go now the sooner the better you should never have gone there in the first place love
never take some Else's because they will never truly be yours.
2006-08-24 17:24:09 · answer #10 · answered by pixie007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋