My boyfriend happen to see his ex one day that me and him where at a trafic light. He noticed her but didn't say anything, and she noticed him. Two days later he told me about it and he was so happy when telling the story. Before this encounter he's been confused about me, after he asked me back again for the second time. I love him dearly, but I think now after this encounter he is being tempted to cheat on me. How I come to this conclusion? First, she married, so he said. She called him at work to confirm it was him. He said she didn't say anything because a women was in his car (me), and he didn't say anything b/c he was not sure it was her... (excuses, I say) They dated and slept with each other 10 years ago, and been friends ever since. I tapped into my bf emails and she's realing him in by saying stuff like she had a dream "not bad"..., then she tells him she heard a song on the radio, slow jam brought some memories... They had sex with music once and he claims he rememb
2006-08-24 10:02:40 · 10 answers · asked by Treasure 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are all right. Something tells me that he is curious. I can't help it but I did check on last time and see if he checked his email. He is still curious to know how many times she chases him. He asked me to trust him and I think he didn't change his email pw because maybe he wants to catch me intruding (to see if I trust him) or he wants me to get the message... I don't know... he doesn't feel In-love with me and he asked that I give him a chance. His father once cheated and he said that that is something he will never do. He lived through it as well with an old ex-girlfriend and caught her sleeping with another man. I think he's just unconfortable making a serious commitment. I'm guilty for pressuring him b/c I need an answer. He saids I need to give him room to breath... Well, someone said it here... I should trust him and give him room and I'll see if he's feelings are honest enough or I will just leave him. It's really hard. Tkx for your answers
2006-08-28 03:24:16 · update #1
just ease up on the jealousy give the dude a little privacy dont go into his personall email account and quit being nosey if he loves you he wont cheat if he dosnt love you then he will cheat either way there is nothing you can do about it. He will dod what he is going to do regardless just give him a little trust. and if he screws you over drop him because he probably dosnt respect you its that easy
2006-08-24 10:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by LT. DAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time to take the bull by the horns and get some answers. Tell him to tell you the truth. Make it known that without truth there is no trust. Last but not least if this continues drop him like a bad habit! Good luck girl, be safe.
2006-08-24 10:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like twice has much challenge..YOU will have to under no circumstances mix industry with pleasure. In no way screw around in your possess residence and in no way mess with the maid or aupair, simplest quandary wil follow and people few second of sexual delight will haunt you.. Now once the novelty of getting your wicked means with the maid has worn off - you can to fear about whether she will be discreet or no longer.-I guarantee that each time you see her and your spouse chatting that nub of doubt inside you're going to grow and it'll force you loopy.. Then at some point you'll be so scared of discovery you'll be able to fireplace the maid under some pretentious intent.. The maid will then precise revenge upon you via telling your wife. You may also live to remorse your dalliance .
2016-08-09 12:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by tuft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Red ALERT! Be on the lookout we have a ho on the loose! Yep you got problems but fact is hes gonna do what he wants regardless of how mad or jealous you get. you just be your sweet loving self and if he chooses to go for a maried woman,eeewwwwwwwww when was her huband there last. Then just move on,he isnt worth a single teardrop!
2006-08-24 10:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm gonna tell you the truth if he was happy about it then more likely he's gonna cheat, so give him some time i know it's hurt but the best thing is to let him go like the song by jagged edge if you have it then listen to it .
2006-08-24 10:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by barbara b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gentlemen, I speak from experience.....this rant is why you should never tell a current girlfriend anything about a past girlfriend. Tell them you were celibate until you met them.
2006-08-24 10:08:31 · answer #6 · answered by Leif Ericson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more then likelyit will happen again get out of the mix its going to get funky which means her husband your friend her and you STDS and Aids on the menu let that loser go you never miss what you don`t have
2006-08-24 10:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by giggi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two, one can always say no, to be honest l think he wants his cake and ice cream at the same time. if he truly loved you his loyalty would be to you, and you alone.The rest is your decision.
2006-08-24 10:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. If he is too ignorant to understand your feelings he will never be a good long term partner.
2006-08-24 10:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by united9198 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(LOL) maybe he has already cheat on you with her so think about what it is you want to do
2006-08-24 10:10:18 · answer #10 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋