if i like the guy and hes cute i will sleep with him but normally i only know this person for about 3 hours. but i long for a real realationship. im seeing no one and im starting to like this guy named joe, but id like a real realationship this time, so dose he. but i dont want to be to easy i dont want to be a slut and i really like him i want a real realationship....do you have anything to say??...
2006-08-24 09:56:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you are easy - very easy
2006-08-24 09:58:57 · answer #1 · answered by Plum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you do not need to sleep with a guy that you have known for only 3 hours and he is cute. What would you call someone you didn't know if they did that? You are worth so much more.
It takes time to develop a good foundation for a long term relationship. Find out what he likes movies, politics, religion, values, honesty, etc. There is more to a guy that a good set of abs. After you find out his values, they determine if they agree with yours. Just remember that good long term partners start as friends.
2006-08-24 10:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your legs closed!!!That's a starter!!Learn to talk and get to know a guy before your quick to get under the sheets.Usually once you bed a guy that quick he don't really care what you have to say after wards.Cause he got what he wanted since you make it so easy!!If you would just wait till like you know each other better and start a friendship up first then move to a romantic relationship you should have no problems with this guy.If you just jump in the bed with him he is going to think you are easy and no telling how many guys you have been this quick to lay 2 and he will get his and then throw you to the curb!!Remember patience is a virtue!
2006-08-24 10:02:25 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just trust that you have something besides sex to offer this guy. I don't know you, but you're probably a great and interesting person. Do you never feel taken advantage of? In my opinion, sex is sacred and to be shared with someone you love and trust. I could never take the pain of being dumped the day after sharing something that sacred with a guy. I don't think that is something we're designed for, and so I would advise you to wait and get to know the guy. Good luck. :-)
2006-08-24 10:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a REAL relationship be friends before you can be lovers dont jump too fast sweetie sex is a big commitment. Its 100 times better in a REal relationship than after a few hours! I know I have been there and done that!
2006-08-24 09:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy? You're a pushover! Although a guy likes girls like you, that isn't a good thing! It sure is going to be hard for you to be taken seriously in a relationship that way. You must not think very highly of yourself....that's sad.
2006-08-24 10:02:35 · answer #6 · answered by suezoo5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you sleep with him. Go off and have some fun and get to know him. You have to bond with him intellectually, and have the same values in life in order that it might work out. Go and have some fun that doesn't revolve around sex. That way you can find out if he likes you for who you are, or if he's just after sex.
2006-08-24 10:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you use sex in hopes that a relationship will develop. I think you have some low self esteem. Let guys get to know the real you before you have sex with them. They will end up respecting you more.
2006-08-24 09:59:20 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, I have something to say!! Do not, I repeat Do Not sleep with this Joe guy until you have been dating him for a little while. I am not one to judge, but by sleeping with guys you've only known for 3 hours you absolutely lower yourself. Please, for you own sake, stop sleeping with random men. Babies are expensive and STD's are icky!!
Good Luck!!
2006-08-24 10:01:26 · answer #9 · answered by Katie A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try NOT to be that easy this time, see what he likes, like Movies, Food, Sports, Cloths, and so on, try to be Friends first, than go a bit further.
2006-08-24 10:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by funguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the world is a changing in this respect.......but I do believe it is bad for your long term mental health to bed hop. Try talking to this guy and getting to know him. You certainly do not have to have sex asap.....with anyone. Take control, find your dignity again .
2006-08-24 09:59:57 · answer #11 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋