2006-08-24 09:55:45 · 19 answers · asked by D J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey dont, the guy was obviously a loser, pick your self up, go shipping, get some new clothes and a new haircut, and get back out there, there are loads of us out there that have felt low and shity after a relationship has gone to the walls.
Just dont take too long getting back out there and miss out on all of us good guys out there !
2006-08-24 10:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Ross B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot have low self esteem from a bad relationship? Self esteem is not something you "catch" It is a condition of worth. So ask yourself, why have I De-valued "myself" for another person?
2006-08-24 10:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by burninup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have the same problem, I had married and abusive alcoholic who told me that no one would have me but him. I realized that I had loved him more than I loved myself and thats why my self esteem was so low. Please pray that you can get the strength to get over him and love yourself 1st. Some people don't realize how important self love is. You will realize that when you love yourself other people will start loving you because you do, sweetheart it is amazing. Do things to put yourself 1st, get over him and u will find a man that loves you and your personality and treat u like a queen and respect you. Thats what happend to me and I thank God for that. Im sure you are beautiful. I wrote this saying to myself..." I love my personality so much, if it was contagious I would give it to everybody!" Be Happy girlfriend , you will get your self esteem to it highest heights !!!
believe it or not I tried to commit suicide back then, and I look back and think why did I let that loser do that to me??
2006-08-24 10:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by smoody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking about your past relationship and taking them into your new relationship let the past be the past and stay that way forget it not all guys you meet will end up bad just give it a try and build you esteem back you you are more then that
2006-08-24 10:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is your question?
...and while you're thinking about it...start working in improving your self esteem since you know its low.
2006-08-24 09:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some alone time out to regain this tool...you have to have self esteem and when you do gain this straight back, don't let anyone else steal it way from you
2006-08-24 09:59:09 · answer #6 · answered by Simple1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you read "In the Meantime" by Ilyana Vanzant available from play.com for £5.99. It not only builds your self esteem, but will help prevent you from entering any more harmful relationships.
Good luck and God bless you...x
2006-08-24 10:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by Sweetcakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Moment for You
There are angels on earth
and I know you’re one.
Like an angel,
you watch over special ones.
Keeping them safe from harm,
and making sure they’re alright.
Lifting them up,
and restoring hope in their life.
Guiding them toward happiness,
no one ever needs to feel alone.
Because you’re loving presence is never far,
and your wings are never known.
But their constant comfort is felt every day,
So, if you ever wonder, you do make a difference in everyway.
By: Kenny P. AKA cobra
2006-08-24 09:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was the same way. i was in a bad relationship and i was so afraid to leave because i thought i could not make it alone. my husband acted like he hated me. but now that i have kicked him out i have been having the best time of my life. its been about a year now and i would not go back for anything.
2006-08-24 10:09:55 · answer #9 · answered by Mysti F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go party now single to get lots of attention to feel sexy again...
Try Pole dancing
Wet T shirt
Jelly wrestling
And do it for fun not serious...
Guys cheer for the funniest and cheekiest not sleeziest.
2006-08-24 09:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋