aight...I just got this REALLY cute boyfriend like a few hours ago and...he seems shy.I wanna know how to act around him and hoe to start a converstion with him...Any tips???
2006-08-24 09:34:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want you can start by showing him that you care. You know like sometimes the expression on his face will tell you. If he's smiling say somthing like you had a good day? Or if he's in a mood give him a minute to relax a little then a little peck on the cheek and a hug would help then ask about his day. The whole point is that he'll see that you're a caring and kind person. A little tlc goes a long way. Once you do that you guys can get to conversating. Don't over do yourself relax and enjoy your time with him.
2006-08-24 09:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy guy huh? You have to learn how to connect with him and speek his language. Try learning about what he likes to talk about but come in slowly. Because most shy guys freeze up when their girlfriend starts asking questions that fly at him. The more you try and talk with him the more comfortable he will be to talk with you and hang out with you. Try to make connections with him. But it'll take him a while if ever to loosen up a bit.
good luck. I hope this advice helps you.
2006-08-24 16:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by Bumble Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy guys LOVE it when conversations are started for them. Typically, once involved in a conversation, you wouldn't even know he's shy. He'll just have trouble starting it off, so try to initiate. By the way, shy guys are the best!
2006-08-24 16:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by Not Your Average Bat Taz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God it's just 1 hour, he's gonna be shy.you can start a conversation by trying to find out his likes and dislikes a try to find out how much things u have in common.
2006-08-24 16:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
giggle and tell him..." you are acting so shy, what can I do to get u to open up to me and feel comfortable around me?" He may be willing to talk a little more. tell him " I want you to be comfortable around me, I enjoy being with you"
if he is quiet, think of a good joke or something funny thats happened to you, never be silent when he is try to keep things going.
2006-08-24 16:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by smoody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well act like yourself. If you act funny from the get go then something is wrong man. Ask him what his goals are, what he does for fun, where he sees himself in ten years. That always gets me talkin!
2006-08-24 16:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by Solja Boi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find out him as a person(what he likes/dislike, favorite foods, friends, etc...) then let him know about you. All else will follow. Remember to always be yourself....
2006-08-24 16:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if any thing guys shouldn't be shy you should but bring up anything talk about what he wants to do maybe going out will make him more comfortable but @ least hes fine
2006-08-24 16:37:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most shy guys really don't have a problem with talking but to start a conversation so i say you start talking and ask his opinoin.
2006-08-24 16:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by Paul S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by finding out stuff about him like ask what he likes to do and what not and spring a conversation out from that...
2006-08-24 16:50:46 · answer #10 · answered by *lonely one* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋