My boyfriend and I went out for 8 months and we just broke up last night. What are some ways of getting over it and not thinking about him anymore?
2006-08-24 09:23:35 · 18 answers · asked by Verity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the beat thing to do is to cry.you will feel much better after that, buy yourself some beautiful clothes,and swing again, to show him that you are still beautiul and full of life without him.
2006-08-24 09:28:59 · answer #1 · answered by ubon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the first thing you need to do is take a good deep breathe and SCREAM!!! I t really does help to get that sicking feeling out of your gut. Then I think you need to do something just for you. It could be a day at the spa or a day at the beach with friends. Some thing that you have dying to do but never found the time for it.
Remember this id your time to re define yourself and to improve on who you are so when the next Mr Right comes along you will be more open to new experiences.
I wish you well and hope this helps you a little with what you might be going through. Remember there is someone for everyone.So enjoy your single time while you can because before you know it you will be involved with someone again.
2006-08-24 16:33:55 · answer #2 · answered by David C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grey Goose is a big help. Set a time time for your mourning. When that passes than go out for a night on the town with your friends.
2006-08-24 16:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by Merrick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals everything. Go out with your friends. Keep yourself busy. Break ups are very hard but someday you'll look back and realize that he was just one guy in your life and you will find another one. Im still in the process of getting over my ex, but it gets better and better everyday that im away from him.
2006-08-24 16:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by andrea lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what helped me was to see him for who he really was ie negative stuff may not sound healthy but you guys broke up for a
reason no need to focus on the lovey dovey things if its really over good times were had im sure but just think of them as that there are more meaningful and better times ahead
2006-08-24 16:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by kat s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him my dear. I will be the best guy friend you ever had and i'm not kidding you. You will always have feelings for him because it was eight months but just move on and you will tend to forget him over time.
2006-08-24 16:28:44 · answer #6 · answered by tedrp1962 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is really hard....once u're with someone for too long, u get used to them and sometimes is hard to take them off ur mind and not think about them.....i had this boyfriend we dated for like 3yrs and its been 2 yrs with out seeing him...but i still think about him....and to tell u the thruth i still miss him............but it depends on how close .....u were with that person....
2006-08-24 16:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by Naly Nellz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hangout with your friends at places he hated :P have fun and meet new guys do things that arent going to remind u of him and maybe find a rebound guy that is fun and talks alot so u dont have
2006-08-24 16:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with other ppl like ur friends, or a different guy. guarantee if u hang with a guy u will get over him.
2006-08-24 16:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy! Get your hair cut. You will feel like a new woman.
2006-08-24 16:30:06 · answer #10 · answered by just me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋