I really really like this girl, and need some good advice, please help.?
She's 13, im 15. She used to be all over me, well people started talkin about it, I kinda rushed her, and just different things happend, and now she seems she dont like me at all. She told her friends she has no feelings for me at all. But she told her mom that she is just scared, and I know her mom wouldnt lie to me. Her mom also said that if I really really like somone else, then i should go for it. But if I really really like her daughter, than i should be patient. I mean we barely barely even talk anymore, whats the deal?
I mean i've liked and many girls, but none like her. There is just something about her, and I know I sound crazy since I'm only 15, but i'm being dead honest. I would do ANYTHING to get her back, will she come back around? And what should I do? I mean because, it was obvious she liked me, she even sent me a song one time, and I think she was trying to say something to the effect that she likes me, just doesnt know what to do. But i missed the point. Well now it seems she has lost those feelings, for no apparent reason, so what should i do to get her back??
But she seems to like me sometimes, like the way she looks at me, or she seems nervous, but other times, it seems like she dont care
I mean it is so hard to move on, especially since i dont know for sure, if she has feelings for me or not. I mean i love everything about her. The way she smiles, her eyes, the way she laughs, everything about her is perfect. I feel so strongly toward her, way more than anyone else.
And it's not like her mom said i dont have a chance. She said if a different girl really grabs my eye, one that I really reall like, then i should go for it. But if No one duz, and I am willing to wait for her daughter then i should contuinue to pursue it.
but now it really seems like she likes this other guy, and no longer me, is she just really fickle, or what? and if she is, will she come around back to me, eventually.
i mean if i did rush her, it was barely anything at all.. i mean i dont think i did. im just grasping at reasons why she backed off
2006-08-24 09:09:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just let her be. if it was ment to be she will come back around.
start talking to other girls, she will see that and start to miss you. if she really cared for you at all.
2006-08-24 09:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by 420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You kinda rushed her and now people are talking and you are wondering why she doesn't want you? Come on open your eyes. 1st of all she is only 13 and you pressured her into having sex with you or sexual acts with you, what do you expect her to say to you and now people know? Who told? Privacy is a big thing with teenagers whether it be boys or girls. You just need to move on as hard as it may seem and let her move on with her life. Your hint was given by her mom. There is no need to wait around for her cause apparently she doesn't want you anymore and its sad to say but just get over it. When God created this young lady HE didn't stop with her. She may resent you for rushing her into something that she may not wanted to do just yet. You are older than she is and you probably know more than she does. She may feel used by you and thats why she doesn't want to be with you anymore. Just give her space but seems like she has made her mind up and doesn't want you anymore.
2006-08-24 09:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you said your rushed things (but barely at all)
your two yrs older then her and that can be quite intimaidating for a girl....I think you shoud talk to her, that's the only way it's going to work out, and you'll get honest answers, if she still likes you, great, go from there, if not, you know and you can feel ok in moving on. Good luck, you sound like a good guy =)
2006-08-24 09:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you sound like you really have feelings dor her. However, the feelings must be mutural. I mean you can't rush a girl into doing anything because that will run them away. The only thing I can say is if you like her wait on her, but don't expect her to come around.
2006-08-24 09:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peer pressure is hard cuz you feel like you should be doing what you think everyone else is doing. Here's the answer, just be honest with her and tell her how you feel about her and why you like her. It can be hard to make yourself vulnerable to another person but it can also be worth it because then they get to see the real you. Good luck.
2006-08-24 09:17:55 · answer #5 · answered by dmyers7us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes way too young!!! (i think) you should find someone more mature 4 ur age! but dont worry u r still young urself u r reading too much into this too...u will learn girls will come and go!
2006-08-24 09:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by lizlatina69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can remeber when i was 13 ... it was a kinda trend to get with older guys...still is ...... am 15 now ..... anyway at 13 ur experimenting ....and at 15 you should be too .... if your feeling dat strong itll be strong
2006-08-24 09:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by lady kia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pursue it. OR SOMEONE WILL.if you do not a thing .what will she thing.but if you go for it.then what you will gain.some like it the hard way .you no hard to get.but what can you lose. the truth
2006-08-24 09:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's only 13, she has no idea what she wants,...her emotions and hormones are spiking off the charts,....let nature take its course and don't rush her or pressure her.
2006-08-24 09:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by Jamie B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
too much to read ! find someone else. You are only 15 and shouldn't be worrying about this crap.
2006-08-24 09:11:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋