How do I develop self-confidence, especially with women?

Question

What can I do to develop my self-confidence with women I would like to meet? I am generally confident, but my mind draws a blank when I see someone I'd like to meet and I can't think of how to break the ice without sounding like I am coming on to them. But I'd also would just like to possess this confidence to live a better life in general.

Answer 1

Ignore their drop dead looks. Talk to them like any other person. Get them to talk about themselves. Don't ask yes/no questions. Make a list of questions you normally ask when meeting new people and memorize the questions. Listen closely to their answers. Follow up with questions based on their answers. Love yourself. Take small steps. Don't compare yourself to others only to where you were yesterday. When you take a risk and doing something outside of your comfort zone it builds confidence. There is no failure, only learning experiences. You can be safe and never try and never fail but then you'll never grow and gain confidence.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Fake it. Eventually it will turn into real self-confidence.

Answer 4

don't be intimidated by the opposite sex, we're all dust at the end off the day. just behave the way you do around your guy friends, it'll come together

Answer 5

dont be affraid top look like you might be coming on to a girl they like to be the center of attention and they for the most part like it when a man comes on to them

Answer 6

practice makes perfect

Answer 7

talk to more and more and more. little conversations help with a stranger just so you can start somewere