should i pursue this
2006-08-24 09:07:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi...I'm assuming you mean you fell in love with someone on the internet.
It's rare, but the person could be self conscious of their appearance.
Other reasons for a person not wanting you to know what they look like are:
They are of the same sex as you are.
The are much older or much younger than they told you.
The are married.
They are stalkers and mean to do you harm.
Please end your relationship if the person isnt willing to buy a cam and show you who they really are.
If they are really interested in you and want to pursue a relationship....they would do it.
Even if the person sends you a picture, do not assume that the picture is of the person you are speaking to. It could be of anyone.
I too met a person on line. Became good friends on line and thought I was in love.
The guy sent me a picture but everytime I asked to speak with him on the phone, he always had an excuse.
After 6 month....and yes...I said 6 months, I found out that my friend was really a girl. She was gay and felt that if I knew she was female and gay, I would not be friends with her .
Please, for your own sake, end this relationship unless the person buys a cam and really shows you who he or she is. And if they do....proceed with caution.
Internet relationships can really be the real thing....but most of them arent.
I hope this helps you. I'm sure its not what you wanted to hear...but I hope you listened well.
Good luck.
2006-08-24 09:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_n_friendly_0000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how can you be in love with someone you've never met in person. You don't even know if they are who they claim to be. You need to back up and take this one slower. Also if they won't send a photo then there is a reason they don't want you to see them. Most likely they are an icky old pervert that is claiming to be a young stud. I would disconnect!
2006-08-24 09:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by KO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they dont wanna show you their face then that person is obsiouly insecure about themselves. I dont think you can love someone you have never really met before though. Well you need to come right out and ask this person to meet up with you ASAP and if not then forget it and find someone else that has some self confidence..good luck
2006-08-24 09:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by lolli_pop69_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't say if the two of u have a good conversation relationship then yeah it might be that the person doesn't have a pic to send u but don't send ur pic if u don't get his.
2006-08-24 09:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds strange to me.I think you should leave it alone.If it's an internet thing you should be careful of them not wanting to send a pic it maby all messed up.
2006-08-24 09:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by endigogirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a life and go out and meet people face to face. She sounds like a dead end.
2006-08-24 09:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe me, ALL adult adult males are perverted. some more desirable than others. he's up extreme in the rankings of perverts. do not do it. I mean, what if he spreads all of it over the cyber web! you won't be able to danger that! He basically would not like that his request for a unadorned photo became became down.
2016-11-27 19:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by abrar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!! You're in love with an illusion. He is typing all the right things. Don't fall for it, you'll only end up getting hurt.
2006-08-24 09:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide that but I think it is very suspicious that they won't send you a pic.
2006-08-24 09:10:02 · answer #9 · answered by lavenderroseford 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WARNING, WARNING!! There's something MAJORLY STRANGE about that. Turn & Walk the way, that sounds like DANGER!
Blessings To You & Yours
2006-08-24 09:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by Pastors Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋