me and this guy are like "friends with benefits," but weve kindof drifted apart. what should i do to get us back to the way we were? should i seduce him? wait it out?
2006-08-24 09:01:41 · 13 answers · asked by jessica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably doesn't want you anymore because he knows that you're easy. I'm not saying you are, but that's probably how he feels about you. What is left to leave for the imagination now? I mean you've already had sex with him,and he thinks that it's okay with you that you don't have a relationship, but it's okay to have sex, so he probably doesn't respect you. I don't know. He probably won't trust you, and could you really trust him knowing that he is as cusual as he is about sex?
2006-08-24 09:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to disrespect yourself like that? don't females have self love anymore? is it that hard to get a guy these days? maybe i should just ask, what the benefits are and if they are sex then if thats all you want from him then i am told that you can do that yourself. why do you want to go back just move forward and only be friends. he apparently is moving on and seems like you should do the same. sex with friends is not always a good idea. try being single for a while and see how that goes. love your body and don't treat your body like a door always wanting to keep it open. most women have evolved from that.
2006-08-24 09:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, kiss him, act more flirtacious toward him. You could seduce him, but whatever you do, don't wait it out.
2006-08-24 09:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 1st thing to do to persuade a person to fall for you is to get his attention by showing off your beauty. Males like a girl which is beautiful and confident. Also don't forget to be laid back and avoid being uptight, disliking everything, or acting like a brat. Taking interest in his interests and searching for commonalities happens to be great for cultivating closeness. Make sure to smile and laugh a ton with him, and also don't be afraid to flirt.
2014-05-30 22:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like u dont care about him, the more he thinks he cant have you the more he'll want you, oh and confuse him, switch it up like you care about him one sec and dont care about him the other, every time he askes you to go out only take about 50% of his offers. don't answer his calls sometimes.
and dont do more sexual stuff or he'll only use u for ***
2006-08-24 09:04:38 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... "friends with benifits?" Seduce him.
2006-08-24 09:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by Not Your Average Bat Taz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seduce him
swallow
back door???
that will get his attention
2006-08-24 09:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he truely likes you he will come around. and if hes just using you to "do things" theres no point hes never going to like you for yourself he will just like you for sex etc. So if he doesnt come around forget him.
2006-08-24 09:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by onecoolchick4950 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could ask his friends what he likes to do then do what he does.
2006-08-24 09:07:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and if he is not attracted enough by that, forget about him he is not worth it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-24 09:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by Euri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋