Bf recently told me that he didn't love me anymore and hasn't for two years now, we've been together for 5. He said he is moving to NC, first he told me he was going to go and I was sad, then he said I could go. Then he kept changing his mind. 2 nights ago he told me he didn't love me anymore. I asked he told me everyday numerous times that he did when I never said anything. He said that he felt guilty and he would appologize and tell me he loved me to keep the peace. After he told me he didn't anymore, he told me he loved me a few times after that, when I didn't say it back, he kept telling me. I asked why, he said because he does like a friend. And not in that way. Then he asked if he could hold my hand on the way home. Is this normal? Still calls me babe,baby,honey, and wants to watch movies with me, and play video games
8Men, is it possible to be with someone for 5 years and not love them for two, at age 20 with no kids with the girl and not married. We live together for 3 yrs now
2006-08-24 08:59:24 · 5 answers · asked by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like he doesnt know what the hell he wants. Personally I dont know why you're still with him. I mean I know 5 years is a hard thing to throw away, but as soon as he said he didnt love you any more, you should have bolted. If he isnt in love with you, saying it doesnt mean anything, and saying it just to "keep the peace" is insulting as hell and you should think better of yourself then to stay with that loser.
2006-08-24 09:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by SOG Wrath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u gotta remember something, if he said he didnt love you anymore, "realize" he is being honest, or he would not of said it,,every now and then he still tells you he loves you because that is only what he was used to saying, it will wear off, you on the other hand need to realize that even if he says that, it is not true, do not "bank" on it or youll really get hurt, sure he has what is called "remaining" feelings for you but not what you are expecting, be carefull,,he was honest so believe it, luck
2006-08-24 16:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by tone284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen...it doesn't matter what's going on- do yourself a favor, find someone else. Just forget about it. Don't punish yourself...there are lots of fish in the ocean and you are much too young. It's good that your not married and don't have kids. This is a good thing not a bad thing. Karma. Think about it.
2006-08-24 16:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by Maine Landscapes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry babe, he was playing you and now your time has ended. Best to just let it go.
2006-08-24 16:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What part of "it's - over"....don't you understand?
2006-08-24 16:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋