She has two children. Not interested in house works. Always sleeping while at home. Not interested in making good communication with neighbours and very selfish. Is she mentally normal or why is she behave like this? Is it because of wrong brought-up ? She dont like her mother.
2006-08-24 08:58:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
It sounds like she has been wronged or hurt in the past and is now defensively withdrawing from people to avoid further hurt. Her non-interest in housework may be due to deep, underlying depression. It may be that it was her mother who abused her, and that's why she doesn't like her. You could offer her your friendship, but you can't force it on her. Simply make your friendship available to her. Otherwise, stay out of her business unless her children are suffering.
2006-08-24 09:04:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is suffering from depression - it can make a person not only sleepy and isolated, but sometimes irritable, self-centered, etc.
That doesn't mean she is not "normal." Depression is just an illness that can be treated and even cured with the right help and time.
Depression is a chemical imbalance, but can be partly caused or made worse by problems the person had when they were growing up, if they were not taught how to deal with emotions well.
If you want to try to help her, you might try inviting her for dinner or better yet, to go for walks with you a few times a week. Exercise is great help for people who have depression.
2006-08-24 09:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by LisaT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 22:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter why she keeps to herself, respect her privacy. Just offer yourself as a good neighbor who is willing to be open to her when and if she needs you. I have known plenty of people like that. Sometimes I am the only one they choose to contact, however seldom that may be. If you treat her with respect and acceptance, you may be doing her a real service.
2006-08-24 09:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has a hard demanding job and needs her rest. Or maybe she just doesn't like people bugging her. Or is depressed. To ask this question about her shows to me why she wouldn't want to be friends with her noisy gossipy neighbors. Maybe she knows you all talk about her and bash her.
2006-08-24 09:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a loner. That's just who she is. It's not nice, but it's normal. If she's abusing her children, then that's one thing, but if she just doesn't want to talk to people, then don't talk to her.
2006-08-24 09:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by sillylittlemen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop stalking or u will get jail,its u got problem and need watching.
2006-08-24 09:01:59 · answer #7 · answered by Harry J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she finds many ordinary humans loathsome. a lot of older, wiser people become hermits for this and other reasons ;-)
2006-08-24 09:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by drakke1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be more friendly with her and try to go partys or reunions together
2006-08-24 09:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by rhcp_505 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's just an unfriendly dirty person...or she might be clinically depressed.
2006-08-24 09:01:01 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋