2006-08-24 08:58:51 · 25 answers · asked by jj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DON'T PANIC!!! Most women cannot achieve orgasm through intercourse. What they need to get them there is clitoral stimulation and LOTS and LOTS of foreplay beforehand. Do yourself and your girl a favor: Spend at least 15 minutes (30 minutes would be better) touching and exploring her body, and tell her to let you know what she likes. See, every woman is different, so what turns one girl on may not work at all on another girl. After you've explored, give her some oral action. And again, tell her to let you know what she likes. Remember to be a gentlemen and always obey the rule "Women come first." You'll thank me for it later -- not only does all that foreplay and oral make your girl think you're a great lover, it actually makes you last longer once you move on to intercourse. It gives you a chance to calm down and enjoy the experience instead of being all wound-up and bound to come sooner than you would like. Good luck, have fun, and TAKE YOUR TIME.
2006-08-24 09:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by sarge927 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah... thats probably not the cause. Some women just have a hard time reaching an orgasm thru only vaginal intercourse. Try stimulating her clitoris during. Or go down on her before hand. Get the nut out of the way. Then go for yours.
2006-08-24 09:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women don't reach orgasm. If you want to drive her crazy, use your hands and your fingers, your mouth, lips and tongue. Find out what excites her. Work together, explore. Don't limit yourselves to intercourse ...
2006-08-24 09:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a very small percentage of women reach orgasm through intercourse.
Manually stimulate her during . .. concentrate on pleasing her before, then have intercourse.. works best for everyone.
2006-08-24 09:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be she getting off with someone else.Start doin the 68 postion tell her to go down on you and ye will owe her one,if she aint givin out no point givin in.Sometimes son love aint enough.
2006-08-24 09:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by Harry J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible i dated this guy who was small but couldn't get an orgasm during sex .it was because it was too small.But i recommend new positions try different thing such as much more foreplay.
2006-08-24 09:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by love me like me hate me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JJ, it's either that or you just don't know what your doing. Get a book to increase your knowledge and ask her what things you do feel good, then do more of them. And experiment with different things, you may be able to find your niche.
2006-08-24 09:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of women don't reach orgasm during penetration, most have to be manually/orally stimulated directly on the clitoris.
2006-08-24 09:01:02 · answer #8 · answered by agapito 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Penis size ain't it. More foreplay is needed. Try some sexual devices(dildo's etc.) even a ggod romantic massage is great before sex.
2006-08-24 09:00:57 · answer #9 · answered by latinoheat131 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may need direct clitoral stimulation. Penis size has no bearing on this.
2006-08-24 09:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by lavenderroseford 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋