We meet each other through a friend. when we meet I was going to school out of town so we didn't get off to the right start. when i came back she had gotten a boyfriend. So i thought i'll be patient and wait to make my move but it seem to long now because it been about 2 years but i still want her. i didn't really tell her how i feel because i don't want to hate on the dude on her boyfriend. what should I do?
2006-08-24 08:54:32 · 25 answers · asked by elio305 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she wanted you.. she would be with you. But she isnt.
2006-08-24 08:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Probably its the fact you are making a women sound more like a object as an alternative then a free spirit with a intellect of their possess that your still single. A ladies or man can't be stolen from anyone, no-one owns someone in a relationship and if they're truly pleased or in love they will now not be desirous about you no-subject what you do to wow them. I'd not encourage you to go out of your solution to ruin a relationship up, you should not ever do anything you would not want carried out to you, with that stated if a friendship blossomed into whatever more and a lady wanted to leave a boyfriend to be with you, that is her option by myself, however simply how so much would you believe her, would you be continually worried that she'd do the equal to you? Are attempting mixing with plenty ladies as associates and chatting with them on the internet, you not ever be aware of where it could lead and if all else fails at the least you'll get in touch with your female facet and females will in finding it easy to divulge heart's contents to you.
2016-08-09 12:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by tuft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should be honest with her and tell her how you feel so she has the chance to tell u how she feels. If she doesn't feel the same then u can save ureself the trouble of trying. But if she does this will give the two of you the chance to talk it out and make a game plan either she will want to be with u more than her current boyfriend or she'll want things to stay the way they are.
2006-08-24 09:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Pixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try the be her friend route so many on here are advocating.. The only thing that will do is make sure you stay in the friend box. She'll just see you as a therapist to dump all her problems on and whine about how big of a jerk her current boyfriend is. Find a girl of your own and make her jealous..
2006-08-24 09:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if its meant to be...she'll come in time...maybe just try telling her how you feel or maybe ask her to the movies or something just as friends..i mean, you should be able to go as friends and u guys can get to know eachother a little more and maybe if its meant to be and u think she takes interest..u can make a move..but one thing is if you really feel like her and her bf r good together...leave them together..it may be a little harsh but if you truly love sum1 u shud let them go through with whats best for them. I hope i helped! good luck with everything
2006-08-24 08:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by Lina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well impress her by talking politely 2 eveyone comes in ur way,have wavy hair n fix them whenever u feel she is watching u dont go gor those nude looks , dress the way u like cuz thats whats girls like in a boy BE UR SELF!! talk 2 her about weather than when it settles talk bout some personal issues n take her out like a goood friend n than when u feel she is coming in ur way love her treat her like anything trust me cuz my boyfriend did the same thing 2 steal me n it worked!!
2006-08-24 09:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your time has passed... If your still friends with this chick, then your in the "friend zone". Which mean if you think about it...if it didn't work out...would u still be friends with her? Do you wanna risk that? if yes...then make the move...if not...then don't... as far as the other guy...if she really does like him then she wouldn't leave him for u...at the same time if she doesn't like him...u might giver her a opportunity to break up with him and be with u...
2006-08-24 09:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Opportunity knocks only once. Now do you believe the phrase. Just leave her alone. Life doesn't end here for you. BE PATIENT. Somday you will find the right person for yourself.
2006-08-24 08:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh i've been in a simuilar situation.If she wants u she will dump him.So show her u like her-even with glances and moves-and if she really likes u she'll come to u.But don't accept her if she is still with him and flirts u coz she will be playing u with most probably.Good luck!
2006-08-24 08:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her your feelings. and ask her if she has any feelings toward you. or just find out whether she likes you or not. don't try to break them up. or else she will be mad at you and wont want to see you again. just be there for her whenever she needs a shoulder to cry on. be there for her whenever she needs someone. then once she breaks up for her boyfriend she will realize that she loves you because you have always been there for her. that is my advice.
2006-08-24 09:02:51 · answer #10 · answered by misty_blue_hawaii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't just out of respect for other human beings, would you want it done to you? and do you have a death wish? And what if you did, and yall break up, but if she stayed with him, she could have lived happly ever after.....i say wait your turn if it comes around, don't tamper with other peoples relationships out of your own greed and lust
2006-08-24 08:58:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋