why did he say no . . . i knew he liked me . . . everytime he sees me he always smiles and when i go to the library he lives a block away and he always gets ther a lil bit after i do . . . my lil sister is 7 should i talk ta him?. er should of i asked him out my self?. i dunno what ta do i think i just blew it :[[
2006-08-24 08:31:45 · 14 answers · asked by hOlLiStEr8hUnNeH 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok honey, I think u are very young to have let your sister do it for u.I'll answer as a 17een girl.Listen to this.Don't worry about guys that much.Some will like u some will not, but really keep this in mind.BE CONFIDENT.don't let other people mess with your sentiments with actions when they have nothing to do there.IThe boy must have been turned down by this movement"little sister asks for older sister".So he may reallu like u but he didn't like what u did(letting that happen)and he said no just to provoke u.In this case u have to start talking to him one day at the library about books or sth,and be cool about it like nothing has happened.He will be surprised and boy really like surprises.Life is full of surprises!I f he likes u he will most probably make the movement if u make the first movement to get to talk to each other once in a while.And if it comes to talk about it,don't deny u knew about it just be cool and make fun of the past situation.On the other hand he may want to show off, that's why he follows in the library and smiles.Maybe it's obvious u liked him from the glances and stuff.However, whatever the case is,be cool and talk to him about anyhting!U can start with a cool "hey there!"and go on walking.If he likes u u'll drive him mad, if he doesn't he will have nothing to say!I hope everything turns out to be fine, u are a sweet girl and remember"girls are equal to boys"so be courageous and get what u want.Try!.When u meet other boys u will remember this story and u'll laugh about it!Have fun.I have this feeling he likes u.But even if he doesn't, he misses out trust me!take care
2006-08-24 08:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up and apologize for your sister being so bold, she's only 7. Put all the blame on her and just say she did know that you did not like me in that way!
He just might tell you that he does, but was imbarassed to ask you out. If he does not ask you out when talking to him this time, just ask him if their is someone else he's interested in or are you not attractive enough for him, just so you know what's wrong with you. (Even though) nothing is....
2006-08-24 15:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are u and if ur older then ur sister whose seven thn ask him out yourself cuz maybe he wants you to ask him not a 7 year od for you cuz he might think your a shy girl
2006-08-24 15:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by CS PLAYER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him out yourself.... having someone do it really makes you look a little childish... if your embarrassed about your sis asking him.... make up a cute story about how she heard you on the phone with a friend talking about him and she took the gesture to ask you without talking to you... laugh about it.... let it go for a little while... then when you know he will say yes........... ask again yourself.... good luck
2006-08-24 15:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by Ann M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that your sister was playing a prank on you, and that you NEVER asked her to do this! Say that you were talking to her about him, and that you like him, but that she decided to do this on her own..........then see what his reaction is (make sure you clue little sister in on this lie)
Hope you have learned your lesson! Ask yourself next time and good luck!
2006-08-24 15:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by aggie babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya probly blew it, if some girls lil sister asked me out for her, id say no. my advice is to find a new crush, cause that one is gone.
2006-08-24 15:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He said no because your sister and not you.You should try asking him i'm sure you'll get adiffernet answer.
2006-08-24 15:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by love me like me hate me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he said no because you ha dyour sister ask him out for you
2006-08-24 15:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by ~BANG I'm Dead~ <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that ur sister is crazy but u really want to go out with him.
2006-08-24 15:37:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thought she was asking him out, for her. Yea, talk to him. Maybe you should ask him out, instead of having your kid sister do it. Yes, you should've asked him out, yourself. Don't be so hard on youself, until you really lose him.
2006-08-24 15:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋