my father was a cancer patient.mother is with me.her in-laws teased her very much,they didn't give her money even for my food(when i was 10 month old,she left that house.my father didn't tell my mother that he was a cancer patient.when my mother came to her father(my grandpa or nana)'s house,he wanted her to do everything like a servant.cook food,wash cloth and what not.then my mother married a man double her age.he has a son who is not financially gud.his first wife used to call my mom and say abuse words to her.i always knew everything but hide from them that i know the reality.my mom recently told me everything that i know it from the beginnig.my step father used to beat me and if i didn't obey his orders he uses not-so-gud words for me.he is now earning not-so-gud money.i wonder what will happen with me if he is ill or something.coz no one is there to help me and my mother.every one thinks v r servants.what will happen to me??
dont use abuse languge.i respect them alot.i m crying!
2006-08-24 08:27:10 · 6 answers · asked by d♥n't y♥u dare try t♥ add me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i have to respect them.without them i m nothing.if i want to be respected,i have to respect others.
especially my parents.i m eating food because of them,wearing clothes because of them,i m on yahoo answers because of them.
the question is do i have a secure living?coz we don't have enough money so that i can obtain an engineerin degree.i ve a step brother,we got some money in the past,but due to financial loss in business we gave him all the money and it is a big amount in pakistan.
in the future if we ever get money,do you think he will come up and say that give him money again?
2006-08-24 08:45:34 · update #1
miss prime mender 5,i don't want to have an action taken against my parents.i just want to discuss my life.
has anyone else gone through troubles like me?
2006-08-24 08:51:41 · update #2
Listen, your mother loves you - and you love her. That's all that matters.
Ignore the abusive language it can't hurt you, don't worry about not having much money, at the end of the day if you have some food in your stomach you will survive.
One day very soon you will be old enough to go out into the world and do what you really want to do. Until then find that place deep inside yourself that says " I am worth more than this"
Respect is something that you earn, you do not have the right to it just because you are the parent or grandparent. For example I respect you for letting us know what is going on in your life. Maybe there is someone reading your story right now who is going through the same thing or worse, he or she will learn something from what we are all talking about.
As for you - keep strong, and find out what you need to study at school to pass the exams to be an engineer if that is what you want, and go for it. I am jealous, there is no way I could possibly be an engineer I am useless at maths !! Good Luck
2006-08-24 09:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by sarah b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like you have had a rough life right from the get go. Unfortunatly, all that I can tell you that will happen is what fate decides. I hope that your life changes to happy, (because it can change in the blink of an eye.) I, too went through a bit of a rough childhood, and it took me a long time after to make my life better. You see, I felt that I was a victim of the circumstance, and didn't know that I could push to make it better... I just went on in my life feeling like I couldn't do anything, and it took me a long time to learn that life is what you make of it. Please, don't make the same mistake I did. You have a lot of living left to go, and you know, YOU CAN make it whatever you wish for it to be. Never complicate your life with drugs or abusive men, because you are a good person and diserve so much more. You will have the world at your fingertips and if you listen, you will be happy one day. Be careful, and don't walk the road full of deception and fear. Stay strong and do not EVER forget who YOU are in the mix of lifes craziness...
I hope this helps you and good luck to you, hun!
2006-08-24 08:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Cutelilminxy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can not tell your gender nor how old you are, or even if your in the USA. From your story it sounds very likely that you are in a foreign country. If you are from a foreign country I don't really know how to help you. In the USA I would send you to the local human services office to report your abuse at your stepfathers hands. Is there a government office that helps people who are abused? Perhaps the American Red Cross?
That is all I can tell you to do, until I receive more information like where do you live and your sex?
2006-08-24 08:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
everyone has to thru bad patch but ur mother's bad times does not seem to end at all.if ur story is a true one then believe me i'm feeling the pain. ur step FATHER(right?) needs to be taught sum ways of behaving to people n specially wid ladies.u gotta crack ur brains n bail u n ur mother out of this situation. try taking help 4m ur frnds n their family.if u r true then justice has 2 b done . my sympathy is very much wid u but there is hardly any thing i can do
2006-08-24 08:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that you're having such a tough life. The most important thing you can do is hold your head up, work hard in school, and find a secure career. Education is the key to your freedom. Hang in there.
2006-08-24 08:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by mJc 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you respect whom? a man(if I can call him that) who beat you and verbally abused you, and no offense, the mother that let it happen. I understand respect and it goes to a certain extent, but it appears to be time to pull yourself up by the bootstraps and forget these fools. You cant always be waiting around for someone to take care of you...
2006-08-24 08:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by chavito 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋