My boyfriend and i have decided to wait till we are married to have sex. I am 20 and he is 21. Neither of us have had sex before. I always had guys in high school try to with me, but i was so shy they never even got close. They always called me "a waste of a good body". But my boyfriend and i live together and make out some times and it comes close. We have never been naked together, but i want to know what sex is really like so i know what to expect on my honeymoon. So if you know how it feels or what i could do to make it great for the both of us, can you please tell me???
2006-08-24 08:15:17 · 17 answers · asked by Sweet_pea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really think it's great of you to wait until you are married to have sex. That really helps you weed out the slimeballs that just want a piece and want to run. Also, you're fiance is great for not forcing you and for waiting himself. As far as what it's like, the first time hurts a little. But, take your time. It's both of your first times- enjoy each other and explore. You've got lots of time to become familiar with each other and what makes the other happy. Regardless, it's going to be wonderful... a happy and emotional moment because this is who you have waited your entire life to be with. Those moments may seem right now like they'll be uncomfortable, but they won't. It will come natural and you'll love him even more. Enjoy it.
2006-08-24 08:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by KC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alright,
gentlemen no offense but I think a womans point of view on this might be more helpful. Men tend to make things sound horrid without trying to. Not meaning to be insulting. At least you're offering your insight which is more then i can say for most men.
First of all love congradulations on snagging a great guy. You're lucky!.
Heres what i do know. For some women the first time hurts a little. But i'm sure that if you're with such an understanding guy you'll be just fine. Other women don't hurt at all. It all depends. But don't stress yourself over it.
Its the breaking of the haymen. If you want to do more research on the medical side i suggest you go to webmd.com and that should get some of your questions outta the way.
If its just sex then it won't be wonderful. But if its making love it will be. You have to be attentive to what your partner reacts to. Each person is different.
hope that helps some.
~Fred
2006-08-24 15:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by warm_champaign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two virgins on their wedding night (one of the most stressful days of their lives) is a reciepe for really bad sex. Don't get your hopes up. Much later you'll realize you were making too big a deal out of something thats not, and wonder why you bothered waiting at all.
2006-08-24 15:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by heynow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet your boyfriend has hit some a$$ before. You are the typical girl to believe that. Sex is great. Hair pulling, chains, mouth gags, and clothes pins. I bet you can't wait
2006-08-24 15:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by guess who? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, I don't think that anybody should wait till marriage for sex. I believe that people NEED to be compatible sexually in order to be in a wonderful marriage. It is supestitious of people to believe all that crap that is fed to them. Think about it. Why would God require from people to be abstinent? There is no real logical reason why. I know that you disagree with me. I am happily married with two children with my wife. I could be happier. She had sex before me and I before her. We had sex many times before marriage.
2006-08-24 15:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wanna know how you can live with someone and still manage to be a virgin. And making out sometimes... OK.
I'm sorry, but I'm not going to even answer this because it sounds a little too fabricated.
2006-08-24 15:19:01 · answer #6 · answered by Steph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people like it and other don't. Personally I love sex. When you first lose your virginity, some people say its hurts and others don't. It is suppose to hurt if the guy knows how to do it. Then your suppose to bleed if he did it right. If he didn't then you won't. It feels so good when you do it with someone you care for.
2006-08-24 15:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
goddamn, you are missing out, but i respect your choice to wait until marriage, it will hurt the first time, specially if he is big and you should expect some bleeding if he pops your cherry, but dont worry nothing is wrong and ummm... you wont last very long at all so you might have to do it twice to get the hang of it, well good luck
2006-08-24 15:20:49 · answer #8 · answered by LogieBaer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's going to hurt some the first time... nothing you can do about that.
After that, the physical sensation will just be the most amazing thing you've ever experience... especially if he tries to please you (lets hope!)
2006-08-24 15:18:35 · answer #9 · answered by kenny_the_bomb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its where a man and a woman hump eachother and make animal sounds.
2006-08-24 19:41:17 · answer #10 · answered by cool man12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋