Okay so my boyfriend watches porn but I am not mad at him for it since I have looked at some things like that but I just dont like the fact that he talks to me about it like saying "Oh, I gave one of my guy friends some porn because he wanted some and everyone knows I have a lot of it." And he also talks about it being on his computer and how he doesnt want his parents to find out... but I really just don't want to hear about it. I don't think its jealousy it's just that I really dont care for him to brag or show off or tell me about it every 5 minutes..since it's quite a personal subject with me. I think hes trying to make me jealous.
I dont care if he looks at that stuff... but how can I get him to stop telling me about it??
2006-08-24 08:07:21 · 17 answers · asked by kaelyn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't have a sex addiction... he doesnt necessarily talk about it every day... but he does bring it up maybe twice a month.
2006-08-24 08:12:01 · update #1
he likes to masturbate a lot...like once a day... so I guess thats why he has it all.
I didn't think you needed porn to masturbate. I sure don't.
2006-08-24 08:15:33 · update #2
So,the next time you sit down to dinner with his parent`s,bring the subject up and talk about nothing else,i don`t think he will bother you any more with it
2006-08-24 08:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by krusty_blue_spaz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
frankly, porn is something that should be shared by 2, it is to get the mood set or to help play out fantasies. If this is an obsession, and my dear, it is to him, you have to ask him to refrain from it entirly. It is like a drug, once tasted, then done again and again, it becomes a problem, right> It is a HUGE problem or you would have never asked for help, so it is more than just a little hobby. Many people like porn and see it all the time, yet to be proud of it, problem. AQsk him to stop completely and then if he does not want to, you have to move on. You are actually competing with a naked person on the internet and in magazines or videos.
2006-08-24 08:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's wrapped up it too much. That's a warning sign to me. Talking about it is a great sign of obession.
If he's trying to make you jealous this way then I do not think to highly of him.
If you wnat him to stop, walk away and see what he does. He needs to respect you and your feelings about this topic.
Please consider moving on and finding a guy that really is into you. That will treat you like a queen!
To appreciate beautiful women is one thing to be obessed is another. It will carry over into other areas and cause alot of problems!!!!!
I hope you find your King!!!!
2006-08-24 08:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still lives w/ his parents than it looks like he still has a teenager's mentality. No disrespect in anyway, but I think he should act more mature around you. What he does privately is his business. He shouldn't try and brag about it. Tell him straight up to not mention about it to you or you'll leave him! Plain & simple:-) Sometimes you gotta take one step back in order to earn that extra step forward...
2006-08-24 08:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by T_Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL.....gently sit him down and tell him something along the lines of: "Sweety, i know you have pron and you watch it. I'm beginning to think that the entire world knows that you have it, but um, I'm not really into it, and i would appreciate it if you didn't talk about it every other minute." If he doesn't respect your wishes, maybe it just means that he isn't right for you anyway.
2006-08-24 08:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by That's_hottt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start watching with him.A guy doesn't only watch to look at women,but subconsciously they know it's something alot of women don't approve of.They get off on doing something there not supposed to do.Once you start pretending to enjoy it with him,he might not be that into it anymore.Chances are you'll both be excited and enjoy each other instead of the t.v.
2006-08-24 08:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by jayne s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start up you a collection of mens photos or do something to get really involved, just become really interested in these guys, such as their names and get to know there history.
Buy magazines, movies even hang up pictures, go to the strip club and then share how you think they are so HOT!
See how he reacts if nothing then DUMP HIS A**!
2006-08-24 08:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by Armireoni 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him so, same happend to me and I tell him I dont like it
and he stop, but one thing if it's like a lot talking about that maybe he is a sicko like a lot of mans tell him to calm down, he is with you now, dont need to watch that crap now, or maybe not that lot.
2006-08-24 08:15:13 · answer #8 · answered by Rainy Heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to give 4 points for the sex addict answer- if he has you there should be no need for him to have porn, let alone be "bragging" about it.....
2006-08-24 08:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by yazukka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he need so much porn? Does he like looking at what he's never gonna get?
2006-08-24 08:13:48 · answer #10 · answered by Meatpies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋