Apathetic or ambivalent? And does it matter?

Question

If you do something morally wrong and personally offensive, and desire to change but don't really do anything to change, want to know what to do to change, but don't research how to change, do you really want to change to begin with? If not, then how do you get to the point where you want to change badly enough to actually change?

Did I hit a nerve Crazy woman?

Answer 1

Pain works...

Most people who have bad character flaws will not change unless they stand to lose something of real value to them... like a relationship. It boils down to what you value the most!