We plan on getting married in 3 years after we both finish school and start saving, but we are so ready to get married, we can't stop talking about it, we are so happy, and love each other like crazy. My parents are so excited for us, we all can't wait. I also want to get married on my grandparent's wedding anniversary and 2 years from now is the only time it's on the weekend.
2006-08-24 07:53:23 · 19 answers · asked by overwhelmed85 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I got married at 19 and only been married going on 3 years and my experience has been great! We have no regrets at all and a beautiful 4 month old. I must tell that she was and still is my best friend before we even started dating and I have known her a total of seven years. We have done great and have helped each other through school and now we have great jobs, house and everything else that comes along with a happy life.
2006-08-24 07:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by anthonym_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, marriage is just a word and a piece of paper. True love is the real thing. You should follow your hearts. If u want to get married now, then do it. Remember, with a BIG wedding comes BIG stress and lots of money. I was married at 19 and now I am almost 32 adn still married to the same person. We didnt start having children until 2 1/2 years of being married and now we have 4 beautiful kids! So, I say, u already stressing about the whole marriage thing. The date and everything. I say , pick your own date to do it and make that day YOUR day, maybe someday one of your grandchildren will honor YOUR day by getting married then. Good luck!!!!
2006-08-24 08:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by beanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong w/ it, but you guys have a good and smart plan. you should stick to it. Getting married and still being in school and trying to finish is hard. And if you end up getting pregnant and having children, not that children are bad, they're very good, it makes it even harder. You shouldn't just be thinking about if a wedding date is on a weekend, there are otehr things to think about, money being a big part of it. In the end its all up to you and him
2006-08-24 07:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by lonely_dove04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got married at 18 and my husband was 21 we have been happy for nearly 30 yrs . ithink long engagments never work you either grow apart or u in up in the family way.. getting married doent change the fact that u need 2 finish school my son is 22 and he got married at 19 he and his fly live w/us so he can finish collage i want them to have a good start w/ an education good luck im not sure i could have waited 2 yrs i met my husband in dec of 76 and starting dating him in july77 and got married in may of 78 happines should be your 1st concern God Bless
2006-08-24 08:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, if you are sure you are ready it's fine :) I'm 21 and getting married next year, and I have a little one on the way. We both love each other to death!
2006-08-24 07:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by Huliganjetta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great that you love each other that deeply, but sometimes it takes more than love to make a marriage works, economical stability is very important, but you are the ones that have the last word
2006-08-24 07:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by daitanaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong at all. When you find the right person and you are truly happy, you can't put an age on it. Go for it. And best of luck and happiness to you!
2006-08-24 07:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by kt367521 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time is the factor for every relationship. The person you are today may not be the person you are two years from now including likes and dislikes, including significant others.
2006-08-24 07:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by bigsexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must surely be the luckiest person on earth. But you know, the world is ruthless. All you need to do is keep your future secured. Be independant! stand on your feet. so that MONEY daren't stand in your way. ALL THE BEST!
2006-08-24 08:01:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong at all..go ahead and do tha damn thing! I wish u the best of luck in ur marriage yall two love birds.
2006-08-24 07:58:19 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋