I had been talkin to this guy for almost. He told me that the last time he had sex was like a week b4 he met me. Till this day he tells me that he still hasnt had sex with anybody becuase he likes me and it would feel like he was cheating on me even though we are not together. So first of all should i believe that he hasnt had sex for almost a whole yr, and if he was just lien does it seem like thats just a line to get me to feel bad for him so i would give it up?
2006-08-24 07:50:19 · 24 answers · asked by cjo372 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on the person.
If he was having sex in a monogomous relationship, and then broke it off, to have a monogomous relationship with you, then maybe he hasn't been doing anything.
But if he was just having one night stands, then er...he still is.
2006-08-24 07:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by Antonio S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you even have to ask this question then chances are he just wants sex. He may like you, but why are you even talking about having sex if you are not going to or better yet, if you haven't? If you have been talking to him for almost a year, and he likes you that much, why are you not together? You must be interested if you are asking this... Think about things like that. He is probably lying to you. Guys generally don't go that long without getting their dick wet.
2006-08-24 14:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex.
All guys want sex.
All girls want love.
Guys say kind, sweet things to girls in order for the girls to give sex.
Girls give sex to the guys in order to get the attention they crave.
It really is that simple.
And you know what - words don't mean a thing unless it is backed up with actions & deeds.
Like the saying: the poof is in the pudding. You can say the pudding looks good, but you won't know until you taste it.
Does this guy simply fill your head with words or do you have actual proof that he is being truthful and honest with you?
I would suggest you continue to see him, and if you want to have sex with him well, that is your business.
Just make darn sure he wears protection...YOU don't need a sexually trasnmitted disease or to get pregnant.
2006-08-24 14:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by docscholl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if i were going for guyspeak i'd have to agree with the guy that just posted second on here.
He just wants sex.
If he cared about you he wouldn't mention it every single time you saw one another.
usually only liers and cheaters feel the need to repeat things like that. If he said it once i'd prolly lean toward a 'well thats sweet.'.
2006-08-24 14:54:28 · answer #4 · answered by warm_champaign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is lying. When rwo people like each other, I think it is a putting off point for one to discuss reasons for having or not having sex with someone else!!!! Dont be fooled girl and dont be naive. I think your conscience is actually guiding you the right way - why else would you be asking this question? Follow your conscience and do the right thing.
2006-08-24 14:56:49 · answer #5 · answered by someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wants sex, if he didn't the subject wouldn't go to how long it's been for him...
Listen to the way he talks, it's all about him... when he says I haven't had sex in xxx months or I wanted to have sex with you or I really like you so I want to have sex with you...
Is he asking about what you want or how you feel? No. He's telling you that you should be concerned about how HE feels.
Lose this guy.
2006-08-24 14:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He prolly wants to get on your good side AND bust a nut, LOL. A whole year iz a long time to wait, I don't think he is entirely honest with you. But, if you like tha guy, U might as well go out with him and see if he's worth it or not.
2006-08-24 15:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by lakota_warrior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants sex
2006-08-24 14:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been talking to him for almost a year? If he likes you so much then why aren't you together? Don't give it up unless you're together. It's doubtful he hasn't had sex.
2006-08-24 14:53:40 · answer #9 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
98% of the guys want sex the other 1 person are loyal and nice and the other other 1 percent are gay haha.
2006-08-24 18:23:49 · answer #10 · answered by rk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋