My bf cheated on me twice so I broke up wit him then his bro started sayin mean things to me and I told my bf he needs to fight his own battles and don't get his brother involved in our fights! and then now he likes my cousin and she hates him just as much as I do so what should I do now I feel like it's my fault for him liking my cousin and that I got her in a tight spot!! plzz help!!
2006-08-24 07:48:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't blame yourself because your ex-boyfriend's brother has the hots for your cousin. You really can't control someone elses urges. You need to tell your cousin to politely decline your ex's brother. If that doesn't work and he is persistant, then she needs to get uglier and uglier with him. If he doesn't get the message, then he has serious problems. Not you nor yor cousin. Hopefully you won't have to have a court of law involved eventually.
2006-08-24 07:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hon even though you sound young you have a problem, and a serious one from the looks of it. you need to let your cousin know all the fact about this guy and then she and only her can decide how to proceed. life is funny in that he might have been a cheating bastard with you and be very faithful with her, then again leopards can not change their spots, i also think like i tell everyone else that you need to move on, not necessarily with someone else but "build" you. work on your personality, improve on your resume', get involved in new and interesting things meet new people and try and get your cousin involved as well, anyhow all the best i will pray for you.
2006-08-24 14:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by diva anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing of this is your fault! Your bf cheated on you TWICE!
He´s garbage! He does NOT know what love is at all!Love is caring and considering. Has he ever heard those words?
If he is interested in your cousin...is that YOUR fault???
That is his problem AND your cousin´s...
Time will sort things out. Nothing is YOUR fault.
Get a bf that will appreciate YOU and worship YOU for what you are. A bf like that will not cheat on you.
(Cheated on you TWICE?!?! Sigh! Loosing him is not loosing anything!)
(Sorry...my english, but I think you get the message...)
Good luck
2006-08-24 15:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by ullis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! This is a tricky one. Just stick with the truth with your cousin. The EX needs to be gone.
2006-08-24 14:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the whole issue alone if it doesnt involve you dont worry dont get into somethin that is not youre bizz
2006-08-24 14:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by fred knowz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got rid of him now she needs to get rid of him.
2006-08-24 14:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not your fault and you b/f seems to be in the tighter spot than you are.
2006-08-24 14:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by rolando h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really just need to GROW UP!!!!!!!!
2006-08-24 14:50:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-24 14:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by melyanano 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋