Getting over someone?

Question

i try to get over this person for over a year, i cant do it, i posted this 20 minutes ago, people advised me to get over it, plzhelp

ok so here is the basics, she said she was going away for a year across town ( i have no car), so on the last day she was here, we had an exchange of words right before she had to go, she said she kinda liked mre and i kinda had a thing for her as well, so i sayd that also, she gives me a kiss, and runs to her car to catch her ride. 2 days later she shows up, and i am puzzled and she says she is a lesbian, likes this one girl and the whole thing that happened was a mistake. I was blind sided by this and didnt have much to say. I have seen her a couple times since then, havent talked to her, she didnt give me her number. Is their any hope?


and it turns out she asked that one girl out earlier in the year that i was unaware of, and got turned down. My friend knew she did this, didnt tell me, ive been messing up his life since, because she is his stalker.

Answer 1

Ok first of all, I think I can understand coz when we are obsessed with the idea that we can have sth with the one we like then we can;t forget it and we don't want to do so.But seriously it's just the idea of it that's stuck in your head.It's still the enthusiasm, no love, no care, no real sentiment.U liked her but in the end u would be hurt so much more if she is indeed a lesbian.Don't worry, u'll find so many sweet romance stories to worry about and the next ones will worth it most probably.So live your life, forget that seconds-silly event and wait for a kiss from a girl who will never tell u that kiss was a mistake..and then it'll be only u.
Take care

Answer 2

Only time will heal the wounds find someone new and keep yourself busy with other things that will take your mind of her .For some people it will take weeks other 1,2,3 or four years to get over a person.You are the only one that can speed up the process by moving on

Answer 3

This sounds complicated. From what you say, nothing stable can ever come of this. I think you may just be infatuated with her. You should try to keep busy with you life, take up new things, and hang out with friends and family. Try to not think of her and move on. You can only move on if you really decide to. You need to accept that you and her can never be and let go.

Answer 4

Doesn't it sound like too much drama for you? Drama is good only in movies, you want a stable person who will help you have a nice life. You don't have to "Get over it" but you need to choose your lovers wisely

Answer 5

Your really need to get over it, you didn't even have a serious relationship w/ her. And obviously she likes girls over boys which is understandable if you know that most guys r jerks..anyways...

There are other fish in the great sea, and they are straight. They could also be in your area, i suggest you go fishing today!

Answer 6

ummm u lost me at the end. Its 2 complicated. move on.

Answer 7

ooooo I would get over her I don't think theres any hope unless she decides to be bi or something like that!! but other that than I would totally get over her! believe me your better off with out her!!

Answer 8

SHE IS A LESBIAN if she turned straight shes yours let her make her decision

Answer 9

sounds complicated to me but I''give you my input--truly you need to put this girl behind you and go forward with your life--old baggage gets too heavy--enjoy life

Answer 10

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