I don't want to do it,I'm not into that.
2006-08-24 07:31:29 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kiara,this is a gag question,I 'm not with anyone right now,I WANT YOU.
2006-08-26 05:47:45 · update #1
then go uptown!
2006-08-24 07:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to answer your question with a question, but are you into receiving it? If so, it's very selfish not to reciprocate.
Think about why you're not into it. If it's the hair then ask her to trim it down and shave it. If it's the smell, there could be something wrong. Tell her about the smell and ask that she make sure she doesn't have a minor infection. This isn't something gross. Women get minor infections more often than you'd think. If it's just being intimidated because it's something you're not sure you'll be good at, start by going down there, but not using your tongue, use your finger instead and see what happens when you find her clit. Once you're more familiar and more comfortable with that 'area', you'll probably feel more comfortable with the whole idea.
You don't have to plunge in and start eating, take your time and learn to do it right! Once you do, the rewards are limitless!
2006-08-24 07:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by Colleen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first response -- you shouldn't do anything you are uncomfortable doing. But the same goes for her. If you are in a caring and committed relationship, there is a give and take. You should always respect each other's boundaries.
That being said, you should also be open to trying new things. If you simply cannot stand the idea of doing it. perhaps you can find a happy medium. Find a way to make her happy without actually 'going downtown.' Surprise her with a new toy you can pleasure her with. That kind of thing.
2006-08-24 07:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by webjanet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...What are your issues with it? If you like girls going down on you, then it's the same way for us. Thankfully I've never been with a guy that has had a problem with it...I've NEVER once have to ask...If you love eachother, you BOTH should be willing to please eachother in the bedroom. Is it because you don't know what you're doing because if that's the case just ask her how she likes it..She will be more than happy to tell you. Does she do stuff you want HER to do? If so, then you need to stop being so selfish and get over it.
2006-08-24 07:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by Brea1243 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen, if you don't want to do it, then don't. If she gets angry at you over something sexual, then she doesn't even deserve you. Just by asking this question I can tell that you're an honest person who really cares about people. If she doesn't respect that, then she doesn't deserve you at all. Do whatever makes you feel confortable. Personally, i'm not into that either, so take it from someone who knows exactly what you mean. Good luck!
2006-08-24 07:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to do it, then don't, but don't expect her to settle for less. If she really likes it and you don't, it will affect your relationship because she will resent you for not pleasing her.
If your gf is clean and STD-free, you should try it. Oral sex is great. If she is into it, you know you'll get it in return. You may even like it. The key is to let yourself go and lose yourself in the moment. Keep in mind that you want to please her. Pay attention to how she reacts when you do it. Enjoy it. Know that what you are doing to her in that moment is driving her wild with passion and in a minute, she's going to do her best to make you feel the same way.....
2006-08-24 07:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your not into it then i would suggest you don't...but it will put a damper on your sex life, believe me my man isn't into it either and i'm really not satisified in the bedroom, but we have been together for over 7 years...but i don't get in the mood for sex with him very often!! Just an FYI!! Sorry!!
2006-08-24 07:35:17 · answer #7 · answered by bootyliciouslatina692 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really cares about your wants and needs, she should respect your not wanting to go in that direction with her. A relationship is built on respect and understanding of your partner's feelings.
2006-08-24 07:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by powxmansal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you want to be accompanied by some real big blisters on your way back uptown. The gift that keeps on giving.
2006-08-24 07:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by imrnlil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly recommend the fish shop, but you should stay off the dirt road.
Your perserverance will be rewarded in her visiting the hotdog stand.
2006-08-24 07:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by ratman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should, If you know it's going to please her, because most of the time, doing sex, women don't have orgasms but pretend for their mans ego that they do. So if you want to keep your girl pleased, and happy with you, opposed to with some other guy. Than you better start munching.
2006-08-24 07:46:50 · answer #11 · answered by heaven_forsaken_dark_poet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋