every time my granny says this.. if me or my mother show up and give her some brochures, photographs, and information about different assisted living facilities or options she gets angry and says we are plotting to put her away.... She has done this 5 times now.
She has all her mind, I think . If she wants to hire a lawyer to change her will, she breaks out the phone book, calls one, and does it. She isn't unable to think or make decisions, from what I can tell. I take care of her full time, driving her to appointments, doing her shopping and cleaning her house, and even hired a neighbor to help out with her when I am busy with my children. She has congestive heart failure. SOmetimes when we can't be with her every minute, and she has a hard time doing something on her own and gets upset, she will start telling me she needs to go in a nursing home, and wants me to find her a home to go to. Then, if I offer her any info at all she tells everyone I am plotting to put her away?
2006-08-24
07:10:42
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