I broke up with my bf of 5 years about 5.5 months ago & now have a new bf who lives with me. I still miss my ex a lot & feel like i'm grieving his death, though i'm the 1 who broke up with him. lately i'm thinking & dreaming about him alot & know I still love him, but am in relationship with the new guy & he loves me alot. I hurt my ex by breaking with him, & know we can never get back together due to my stupidity & indeciveness. I like/love the new bf too, but that spark of deep love isn't there. i tried listening to my heart, rereading my journal to remember why i broke up with the ex, but still feel like i did the most stupid thing i could've ever done with my life by losing my ex. now there is no going back, only forward but i'm having a hard time moving on. when i go for days without thinking about my ex i'm ok, but then something will happen & i can't get him out of my head for days. i think its just nostalgia & wanting those feelings back again, but i can't shake it
2006-08-24 07:04:42 · 6 answers · asked by rollarcoaster brain 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know i should move on, & not contact my ex because that would be too mean to him, & i know i moved in too soon with the new bf, but what am i going to do to help myself out of this hole i am in? Its driving me crazy & i am really moody these day, wanting to cry nearly every day. i saw an old picture of us and wanted to cry because i missed us so bad, but we are no more. he was such a great guy, and i broke up with him because i was worried about so much stuff, but i have hurt him beyond repair and need to forget him, and have him forget me too. I am just going crazy i guess... any suggestions?
2006-08-24 07:07:08 · update #1
Its okay to feel that way. Perhaps you feel like guilty in a way, like its your fault he's no longer with you. Especially if you have good memories. Think seriously of what you want with your new b.f it was five years with your ex! Of course you misss him. Maybe you love your new b.f becuz he loves you, but dont get that mixed up if you dont truely love him. One things for sure though you need time to yourself to really think and plan out what you really want. maybe try seriously talking to your ex and show him you've changed.
2006-08-24 07:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by Khat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A person’s life is full of dreams. Dream can be about one’s ambition which he gets fulfilled with the passage of time thru his own hard work, intelligence, good planning and with the blessings of Almighty. Another is day dreaming which is really not a good habit and can be controlled with one’s will power. But what about the dreams a person experiences during sleep. Do they hv effect in our real life? What do they mean? What is their interpretation? The person asks to his friends, elders and seniors in his social circle. Sometimes he gets satisfactory reply and sometimes not. These days Internet is a rich source of information. So one does not need to depend on others for one’s dream interpretation. The Yahansmaniac Community member suggests the following.
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2006-08-25 18:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him aletter, send him an e-mail and tell all abt ur feeling and that it's all coming back to you. then the only thing u can do is to wait for the answer. but don't get disappointed if there wasn't an answer for several days. maybe he is in a hard situation like u and nedds time to dicide. follow ur heart n give him time. u've to choose between them but be careful not to regret again.
2006-08-24 07:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by Julie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-02 23:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize to your ex and maybe ask if u 2 can be together again
2006-08-24 07:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always want what you can't have.
2006-08-24 07:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋