The guy is an immature, selfish freak and you need to move on. Us guys do indeed like both activities, but to demand and pressure a girl is demeaning and marginalizing her. You are aware, I'm sure, that he wants it to go much further than what you've described. Don't put up with his badgering, and whether it's him or another guy, don't ever do something that makes you feel used and uncomfortable. You're worth a lot more than that, girl!
2006-08-24 08:37:11
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answered by Anonymous
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absolutely not. if i care about someone, i respect their personal boundaries and accept that they will take the relationship to that level when they are mentally and emotionally ready for it. i've been in your exact predicament at least twice, where i was primed and ready, and was actually starting to go down, when she said wait, im not sure about this. and i said, ok, well then i won't do it. i don't want you to regret it, so we'll wait until you are sure. you tell your bf if he's going to pressure you, its only going to make the wait longer, because you want the experience to be a treasured memory, not something that you'd like to forget because of awkwardness and pressure.
2006-08-24 14:00:49
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answered by begeeman13 6
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If the two of you are already having sex then why not? Both of those activities are normal things that are done during sex. If you never try anything new you'll never know if you like it. Try both a couple times and see what you think. If you don't like it it's ok but at least you did your part in trying to satisfy your partner. If you refuse normal things that go along with sexual activity with your boyfriend you can't be upset with him moving on.
2006-08-24 14:03:15
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answered by maywald32 1
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No. Never. If she doesn't want it, it's her call. I have the right to ask, that is all. She can decide if she wants to or not.
He's not being very considerate, but you should stand firm and not cave. You can pressure him to stop hassling you until he caves :)
2006-08-24 14:00:57
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answered by Magina 4
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no pressure here i love my lady.
she sets the pace between us that way i'm always in the race lol
2006-08-24 13:59:42
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answered by longfellow j 2
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I am not a guy.....but i can definatley tell you this.....Let him eat you & then give him the hand job. You will eventually end up doing it, whether it's with him or not. Trust me, please him equally, before he does'nt wanna do it anymore & then you will regret it.
2006-08-24 14:07:28
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answered by liz920 1
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No. He let his intentions known to you, and thats good. But he should wait until you are comfortable with it. And even if you're not comfortable with it, he should be satisfied without it if he loves you. From your side, talk to him and let him know why your're not comfortable with it.
2006-08-24 14:01:48
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answered by Dhishting 2
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why wont you let him give you pleasure, alot of woman like it, as far as the other thing thats up to you. My girlfriends like it and they like going down on me.
2006-08-24 14:03:28
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answered by shepardman1 4
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No, if your not into it, then don't. It will make things awkward if you say no, but no is no and thats that.
2006-08-24 14:00:41
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answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3
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You should only do that if and when you feel comfortable doing it.
2006-08-24 14:00:23
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answered by slowfingers007 2
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