I view myself as a classy lady and have gone through a separation/divorce in the past five years after being with the same man for 13years; in the last year I have been really looking down on myself and thinking about the bad decisions I have made throughout my sex life over the years of 10 sex partners.... I feel dirty and ashamed. I am 35 and have two children by one man that I was married to... I am a clean and high standard/moral lady. Are their any other ladies like me out there and what are you doing to cover come this shameful feeling? Guys what do you think of a lady that would speak this about her sex life?
2006-08-24 06:53:11 · 15 answers · asked by crazy life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't worry so much about what happened in the past. It is the past, after all. I also wouldn't let too many people in on my past. They will judge you on just what they are seeing in front of them, why give them ammunition to make more of it than you care to have them know? The fact that you think it is something you are ashamed of is a reason I wouldn't live in the past, just move forward and do the best you can in your present. God bless you.
2006-08-24 06:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by fruitsalady2003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi , i am also divored 35 yrs old and do not think there is any thing wrong with the amount of partners you have had! it's not ezy being with one person for a long period , i was married for 15 years and never strayed once ! did not help being put down by my partner so i had no reason to think i was worth much! but once i was single . this whole new me developed and opened my eyes , that was 4 years ago babe! i would'nt change it if i could! i look at it this way " you only live once, make the most of it before your too old"!! you have nothing to be worried about ! reply if you like even if its to tell me to f***k off lol
2006-08-24 14:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that´s a lot but some people on here claim to have slept with like 35 men so I think in comparrison it´s pretty reasonable, I suppose.
2006-08-24 13:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
10 people over 35 years and you started at 15 you are saying? That isn't bad really. I don't care as long as the girl isn't really a slut.
2006-08-24 13:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by hawksfan17 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no reason to think down on yourself. u made some bad decisions, sure but important thing is you realise what needs to be done, and are admiting it. that is the hardest part. then next hard part is thinking on where you want to go/be.
whats the shame if you can get your life together and act on it...
2006-08-24 13:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
10 is a big number but that is your pass if you are living right and taking care of yours kids and carry yourself well that's what you focus on that was then this is now your not sick you don't have anything God has blessed you with good health baby girl let it go it's all in your mind that feeling is all in your mind
2006-08-24 14:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by nikia p 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's nobody's else's business how many people you have slept with.
If you feel ashamed, then you were wrong to do it. If you don't, then who cares what other people think?
2006-08-24 13:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
actually thats a moderate number by todays standards.
but even though you like to speak your mind somethings are better left unsaid
2006-08-24 13:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by longfellow j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO, THE ONLY ONE THAT MATTERS IS THE ONE YOU'LL SPEND THE REST OF YOU LIFE WITH. I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY PEOPLE BECOME SO HUNG UP ON THE # OF PARTNERS ANYWAY.
2006-08-24 13:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by gldchild2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You do not have any morals. You had sex with 10 people ! You qualify as a slut. I really hope that you have changed your ways. We all should only have one sex partner - our spouse.
2006-08-24 13:55:37 · answer #10 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 1⤊ 4⤋