I met up w/ my ex-gf and group of friends that we grew up with last night. I known them for over 10 yrs and that's how long it's been since my ex and i've been together. Now my current gf is having a fit cuz i saw her last night. WTF!!! is this normal? how can she tell me who to be friends w/? furthermore, it's not like i see her often, maybe twice a yr? and we're strictly just FRIENDS! wat's ur take on this? please share ur thoughts!!!
2006-08-24 06:46:14 · 6 answers · asked by yah27 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is a girl... And I must say, no matter what MOST girls get this knot in their stomach when they think of there boyfriends ex. Its just a thing. Your her man now and you were once the other girls man. You liked her at one time so maybe she thinks you could leave her to go back even if there is no other trust issues. Anyway, it should not be something she gets over pissy about, let them meet. Maybe she will feel more comfortable. And just reasure her that she is your girl now and your ex is an ex for a reason. Just try to understand her a little. It should be fine.
2006-08-24 06:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to explain to your girlfriend gently that she's the girl for you and that your ex is purely your ex - and only a friend from your childhood. Sometimes people get jealous in these situations, and it might not just be the fact that she's your ex, it might be the fact that you met up with another girl. Make sure your girlfriend truly knows nothing is going on and it's only something that happens now and again and means nothing.
Some people just feel pushed away in situations like this, and it's now that your girlfriend needs to know she's the one for you. I personally don't think you've done anything wrong, but I feel as you should calm down a tad - you shouldn't argue with her about it... just explain.
Oh, and if you do ever go out with your ex and her friends again, make sure you tell your girlfriend - if you don't, it makes it look sneaky and that's not what you want.
2006-08-24 06:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the exciting gf became somewhat too friendly with all his friends, which could lead on on a guy to alter into insecure. think of in the experience that your guy became friendly with all your girlfriends. might you get an uneasy feeling? Why he'd choose for a woman like it somewhat is up interior the air for the reason which you probably did no longer provide many info.
2016-09-29 22:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I want to say that it is normal for a woman to feel like that. The reason why because a woman feels territorial when it comes to another woman and their relationship especially when I ex is involved. I feel that your current girlfriend should not feel like that but does when it comes down to it. Don't hold her accountable for her emotions because deep down, ask yourself how would you react if her one of ex came to have fun with her? If you get past it then you two where meant for each other. True love!!
2006-08-24 06:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by writecuzimfree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girl is overacting she needs to calm herself down. Talk to her and show her that there is no need for her to be upset.
2006-08-24 06:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by trini_rocker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UR GF IS VERY JELAOUS ..THATS NOT NORMAL
2006-08-24 06:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋