A girl I like in school will only go out with me if I let her and her friend jump on me, like the clip she saw below:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1GjkU5tNhG4&search=trample
I think this will hurt, but she says I should be a man and should take some pain for the girl I love.
Should I do this or not?
2006-08-24 06:37:01 · 16 answers · asked by GOAL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would advise against it if you don't want to be treated that way throughout your relationship. To me, the pain is not the issue, the issue is that she would make you do something unnecessary that you don't want to do. It smacks of a user type personality. You know, that one who wants to see how far she can push you before you don't want to be with her anymore and then laughs with her friends about it later- yeah that one. If she really wanted to be with you she would care about you and how you feel.
2006-08-24 06:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am 22 and i remember asking boys to do stupit things like that for me and then i would go out with them. To tell you the truth, I never went out with them and all i did was have a good time. Take it from me, if she is asking you to do that is b/c she does not wants you. Find you some body better
2006-08-24 13:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by Erika S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's pretty sad, if a girl is asking you to do this she isn't worth going out with. Love shouldn't be painful, find someone who is going to like you for you.. Good luck.
2006-08-24 13:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by something new 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And just how many times will you be asking this question???
you waste 5 points each time you ask it - but I get two for my answer. I think I should get more points cos I had to read the question over & over . . .
2006-08-24 13:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times are you going to ask this? Do the responses to a question like this turn you on, freak?
2006-08-24 13:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sounds like she just wants to hurt you and that's a bad start to any relationship.
Don't EVER date anyone who says, "I'll only love you IF...." That's not real love.
2006-08-24 13:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know this will cause you pain, why would you do it? Don't let anyone talk you into doing something that you don't want to do. If she Loves you, she wouldn't want to cause you pain.
2006-08-24 13:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by Deana P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inmature much. Definatly not, if she was your dream girl im pretty sure she wouldent be asking you do do things that would be phisically or mentally hurtful.
2006-08-24 13:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by bunny_girl62 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um no. dont hurt urself js fo a girl. theres plenty more out there, nd maybe one u'd like even better that wont ask for u to do stupid things like that
2006-08-24 13:38:42 · answer #9 · answered by shorty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't want to do it then dont. if the girl cant respect your wishes then she is obviously not good enough for you. be a real man and stand up for yourself...dont be a door mat
2006-08-24 13:41:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋