I'm used to a long, exciting sex due to a 2 year-old relationship with my ex-bf. but now, with my new boyfriend, it's barely even 10 mins! I don't know what to do, as far as I love him, and don't wanna hurt him. I really don't enjoy the sex anymore. what can I do?
2006-08-24 06:24:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to masturbate more.
That should help him last longer.
2006-08-24 06:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex more times in a row...the first time it will be over soon...rest for like5 minutes and then start again..maybe it will last longer. maybe you're really hot and he didn't have sex for a long time..and he is extra "sensitive".....If that doesn't work I think there are some kind of creams, I think, in sexshops that he can use to stop his sensitivity
2006-08-24 06:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by andrei_stefanescu2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET COSMO, THERE'S ALWAYS A GOOD ARTICLE ON HOW IT MAKE IT LAST LONG OR HAVE BETTER SEX. IT'S GREAT U AND HIM WILL LEARN AT LOT. IT'S ALSO GUY FRIENDLY SO HE WILL ENJOY IT. JUST BUY ONE READ IT AROUND HIM, HE'S BOUND TO ASK U WHAT U ARE READING, JUST TELL HIM ABOUT IT AND HE'LL WANT TO KNOW MORE! THAT WAY HE WONT KNOW WHAT U R TRYING TO TELL HIM AND NO FEELING R HURT!
2006-08-24 06:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by teriwilburn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant do any thing but tell him(good luck on not hurting his feelings) if he is a man. he will fix the problem by spending more time getting you ready, if you know what i mean or you could tell him when he feels like its coming on to pinch the base of his penis(top and bottom) and hold this will stop it from coming after time he will be able to go longer.
2006-08-24 06:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by doc2be 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him give you oral sex more.
If he can spend 10 or 20 minutes "down there" before other things happen, then the experience will be more pleasurable for you.
AND him!
2006-08-24 06:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by ed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after he cums he should just get a new condom and do it again. or before sex, u should dry him up first, u know, make him bust before sex, den do it. and it should take him a little
longer to bust again. and if he can't go anymore, just buy him some sea food or some man pills.
2006-08-24 06:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jerk him off before you guys have sex, let him recover from that, then go for it, chances are he will last longer because he got off earlier
2006-08-24 06:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the oral and the foreplay last longer....... don't let him in you until you are ready for it to be over for the night.
2006-08-24 06:27:42 · answer #8 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pull a trick on him. when he is about to go, tell him "better not ***, you better not" in a kinky sexy way, and he'll hold out longer than usual
2006-08-24 06:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by Karen Elaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can work him to the brink and right before he goes...calm down and slow it. then you have to work it up again. it will drive him crazy too
2006-08-24 06:29:29 · answer #10 · answered by Modern_Monroe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋