i went out with my ex g/f for like 2 months eveything was goin really well...we had everything communication...u name it...it was the best 2 months of my life....she took a step back and wanted to be friends...why was that?
2006-08-24 06:22:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One of two reasons: (1) She wasn't having as good a time as you thought, but she didn't want to hurt your feelings or was afraid of ho you would react so she made up a lame excuse to end the relationship. or (2) She really did feel very strongly about you and got spooked that she was having such feelings so quickly. As nice as youmight have been, she may have felt vulnerable and that scared her so she wanted to back off. My suggestion is to try to be friends but ask her how she really feels and don't take a wishy washy answer. Of course, if she does come out and say she doesn't want to be together you have to accept that, too. But at least that's better than clinging to a relationship that just isn't going to happen.
2006-08-24 06:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by Kris G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe she had never had a good relationahip before and it scared her. Sometimes in abusive relationships when something feels so perfect that is usually when the sh*t hits the fan. Are you sure that she felt like everything was wonderful? Also women are strange sometimes, she may want to see how much you will fight, or go to have a relationship with her. Don't give up yet, if she didn't want to see you at all sounds like she would of completly cut all ties.
Good luck.
2006-08-24 13:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by FANNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off if you are a young guy (less than 25) you should not really be concerned about getting tied down in your life right now. You at an age were you should be enjoying your life, getting your career starting, traveling and meeting people. That is not to say you need to stop dating but simply do not get tied down. You have plenty of time for that.
Second, if this girl just wants to be friends then so be it. She is either not into you or she found someone else. Believe me there are lots of women out there and for us men it just gets easier as we get older. Trust me on this.
2006-08-24 13:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by MrJuan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, it never fails, you give a woman all she wants and sometimes she gets freaked out about it, sometimes women likes assholes, jerks, keeps them on their feet, she might not realize it now, but she might have lost the best thing to ever happen to her. Just let it go, act indifferent, see what she thinks of that...
2006-08-24 13:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by eunicealarcon05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She got scared. Sometimes us girls are afraid that things are too good to be true so we break it off be4 the guy has a chance. We don't want to get hurt, so we end it be4 any true feelings start developing. Just give her time. If it is meant to be, it will be. Let time deside for you.
2006-08-24 13:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by ilovebabies123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there can be so many things to this situation. do you think that ya'll started off too fast? sometimes in relationships, 2 months is not enough time to really understand a person. maybe 3 you start to see how that person reacts to situations. but you need to think if you jumped into this with her too fast or if she just wasnt the one to be with.... Its hard but it just gets easier.
2006-08-24 13:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by TacPooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like you said. because she had never experienced that before and that scared her. people are afraid of the unknown. she was afraid of what would have happened, of letting go, losing control, and most of all finding herself. she wasn't ready for that, she wasn't ready for the truth. people can't handle the truth that's why they lie so much.
she'll realize that she can't run far before she needs to find herself and she will come running back to you. so don't worry. its nothing you did. just give her some time to figure things out.
2006-08-24 13:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by Kokoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would say that while it was the best 2 months of YOUR life, it certainly wasn't the best 2 months of HERS.
2006-08-24 13:24:06 · answer #8 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently she get bored easily. She really didn't know what she wanted and as always there are two sides to every story. Maybe she found another beau. You never know!
2006-08-24 13:24:28 · answer #9 · answered by boobi27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are wired man, and honeslty sometimes the problem isn't even you. You were good to her and she prolly yearns for a guy to treat her like crap. It's sucks man, you best bet is to move on.
2006-08-24 13:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋