I have graduated from college a couple years ago and I know all of my friends and there friends.. i hate going to bars and like they say if u meet them at bars, they will leave you at a bar. ALso I have this rule about dating people from work. this people that work know why. I am also a model in SF, but the only thing is that i wont date models. So please help me know where the good guys are. Its hard since i have been out of school. thanks
2006-08-24 06:15:43 · 20 answers · asked by th1gurl23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are a good guy maybe you could send me an email or something and we can chat (if you dont have a g/f ) or maybe u could send your myspace link...
m_cisneros123@yahoo.com
2006-08-24 06:54:37 · update #1
They congregate at church. Go there.
2006-08-24 06:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The bar thing is very true. This also applies to nightclubs and mostly any place that involves alcohol. There are plenty of good men out there, you are just looking in the wrong places.
If you are a model then you have the problem of atracting people who only care about your looks.
Try interacting with people at uncommon places: the library, a park, some sort of guy conference that does not involve drinking or mechanics.
Keep in mind that good guys are mostly either taken or have given up trying to date because we ussually end up being the best friend.
2006-08-24 06:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a good question that I know alot of woman wish they could answer... the truth is that a good guy can be found anywhere...I wouldnt rush, I would take my time and make some male single friends and see if any of them interest you... Seems like more relationships here lately are lasting longer when it started out as friends..... I wouldnt do the bar scene though, men are only after one thing at a bar and it ant a relationship thats for sure....Good luck hun, i hope you find the man of dreams thats just right for you....
2006-08-24 06:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by Karma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok seriously you have to define what you want in a guy. There is not really a place where the good men hang out, we are everywhere. start talking to people. just have a couple of dates and if it isn't what you want toss them back. You have to start sifting through until you find what you want. you shouldn't necessarily rule out work or bars, most people do meet there.
Learn how to flirt and sort out the good from the bad and you won't hate bars so much.
just do what you like and be yourself and you will be near others who share your interests, and risk level etc.
Bon chance
2006-08-24 06:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems like your filtering a lot of places where you might find a good guy, but the sad fact of the matter is a you being a couple years out of college - the majority of good guys are already taken, and the pool of whats left of them will only dwindle as you get older :(
but if you model you shouldnt have any trouble finding someone almost good
2006-08-24 06:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by 10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are limiting you options if you a) won’t date people you work with or b) won’t go to bars.
If you want to find someone with common interests you will need to go to the places that interest you. If you like Art you could go to museums. If you are into athletics you could join a gym or a club (soccer league, softball etc). Good luck
2006-08-24 06:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by Steven H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, try yahoo personal. those are guy that have details about themselve and you can tall to many of them at once. so you can decide what kind of guy you want and ask them are they going to cheat or not, of course they said they won't, but some guy will said yes and get you as a player. So the bottom line is you need to decide who you want.
As for me, i am a guy that doesn't, smoke, drink, or do drug, i am loyal and faithful to my girl. but i am only 5'5. so everythings sounds good, but the height is a little short right? so here is the bottom line again, you need to decide who is going to be your lucky man.
2006-08-24 06:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the nice guys are out there. they're just in the most obvious places like the coffee shop where you get your morning coffee or in your apartment building. you just have to take a chance and strike up a conversation with them and see where it goes from there
2006-08-24 06:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by Mitchell G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately co-workers are the largest dating pool for the post-college group. You should reconsider that rule.
2006-08-24 06:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by heynow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sweet princess,
dont be complicated, be more open
Open your eyes and door to Good people, and find true LOVE
When you fall , you wont make so many compl.....
Enjoy Life.
2006-08-24 06:21:51 · answer #10 · answered by MIkE ALEGRIA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every body got eyes but how many can see the real thing.
Train your mind, and you will see that they are not very
far from you.
2006-08-24 06:23:49 · answer #11 · answered by nomad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋