i love same one but my parents are not ready to accept that person whom i love.
2006-08-24 06:08:33 · 20 answers · asked by nikhil j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Marry the person you love anyway. Parents won't stop interfering in their children's marriages until you stop letting them.
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2006-08-24 06:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by mollyneville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all parents don't want to see their kids hurt by idiots. You know the kind people who say I love you and show just the opposite. Secondly parents go through stages just like their kids. The first stage is, gee I'm getting old I see my son walking around with an erection or my daughter is starting to develop breasts. The second stage is, Gee I'm getting older my kid just graduated high school. Third stage is I am getting real old my kid is getting married next week. Fourth and final stage is Man I got one foot on a banana peel and the other one in the grave. My kid is having a baby in 9 months. Along with the stages of depression the feeling that the s.o.b my kid married is not taking care of him or her. So with this in mind try to understand parents. Just remember one day you too will be in the same shoe.
2006-08-24 13:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by big T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged marriages have a higher success-rate and are everlasting in general, especially, in eastern countries like India. On the other hand, love-marriages are found to end up in unhappiness or separation. Probably this is due to the fact that juvenile love is blind and does not see the realities of life. Marriage is a holy institution and needs a careful planning for a happy and lasting relationship. In most of the cases, emotions dominate in making this most important decision of life and irreversible mistakes are bound to occur. Parents, who are sufficiently experienced in the affairs of life, try to find the best match for their children for a happy married life. Hence, if one is in love with somebody and wants to marry, it is always the best thing to seek parents' approval.
2006-08-26 22:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by believer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possessiveness over the child makes the parents to not accept the love marriage. But u can change your parents. But it will take time.
2006-08-24 13:14:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the environment(or country) in which u live n by ur name i can guess u r frm India. here situation is different
especially in small cities parents dont have high regards for love marriage also(generally in metros love marriages r increasing otherwise in other place its not). also parents r more experienced n will always think for ur best, trust in them. i personally believe tht u should go according to ur parents(especially in our country). even i think it wont be correct to blindly follow their decision check before u do anything.
2006-08-24 13:21:41 · answer #5 · answered by naturelover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready to take indepedent decisions?
Are you earning enough to live independently?
Are you capable of leading an independent life?
Are you not interested in your parents any more?
What is their fault?
Are they not ready to find a girl for marriage?
Are they so dumb?
or Are you blind?
Be ready to face the consequences.
2006-08-24 13:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parent r afraid of Society...relatives...nd about you r safe future...
try to convience nd prove to ur parents tht the guy can keep u happy nd u r happy with him...
I am doing the same ..to my parents for some gal...
2006-08-24 13:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both you and your prospective spouse are adults, want to marry each other and are capable of supporting each other, you can definitely go ahead even if your parents don't agree.
2006-08-25 04:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't a question, and it's certainly not written well. Maybe you have other things that you should focus on before love, like getting into High School.
2006-08-24 13:10:58 · answer #9 · answered by Labrottweiler 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you are over 18 you can marry whom ever you want to your parents do not have to like it ..
2006-08-24 13:10:28 · answer #10 · answered by thenewbabies32 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋