are we going 2 break up soon??

Question

how do u know when a relationship is near its end

Answer 1

when you find pictures of your other half having sex with someone else.

Answer 2

u know what the sad thing is... alot of people STAY in relationships that should have ended...because there is no more respect, trust, or growing love.. just something stale, and comfortable, unhealthy but easy...... is that what u want? =T

remember, the realtionship u want for yourself, and for someone u love, *should* be Positive, Healthy, Good...make u both better people, not worse.

ok, here's my current relationship in a nutshell, i hope this helps you: i've been thru some ups and downs w/ my boyfriend, and we always came out of it Stronger. so i truly cherished and admired and was thankful of him. and i used that to try and make myself a better girlfriend, a better person, stronger, wiser, everything. for myself, but for our relationship as well. :) and the whole time i thought he was doing the same, working for the relationship, and appreciating me.

we had a HUGE reality check this past weekend: long story short, he snapped at me for no reason, and i was like, what the HELL is ur problem? why are u ruining my happy mood, for no reason??! and we came to the conclusion, that he was taking me for granted. he was lazy. and he was taking everything i was doing for him, and not realizing that i deserved to be treated well too. that SHOCKED me. i couldn't believe this whole time i was so happy, and appreciative, and Communicating that appreciation with him..and the whole time he didn't think twice. =T...i told him straight out, i am NOT going to be w/ someone like that. cuz i deserve better. and he agreed w/ me. he said he didn't want to be the kind of person who was that selfish, and that this was showing him that he does indeed need to change.

to me, the possibility of the relationship ending was really sad, and shocking, cuz up til then, i was SO sure that he was the one, and that we were working towards marriage. he was too, but he didn't realize that he needed to work on it too (sooo stupid!). anyways, long story short...the important part is not that u are goig to be sad when the relationship ends...but if you are getting what u deserve. if he is not treating u well...u will be better off finding someone who WILL. if he is willing to change, give him a chance. but not because u just want to stay with him. it should be because u think you will be Good, Positive, Healthy partnership together.

good luck, and be strong. work on urself, to be the best Woman, Girlfriend, Future wife that u can be. that way, u will know u deserve nothing but the best Man, Boyfriend, Future husband that you deserve. and u won't take any less. and because i feel this way, my bf can see that i am Worth keeping. because i keep myself accountable as a girlfriend. if he wants to take me for granted, i won't be there anymore. imagine if i just let him treat me like that, he would NEVER have learned to respect me. so, be strong, and happy, and positive, and u will find someone who can be the same for you.

Answer 3

i havent had a relationship with a guy end yet so i cant help you there. but i have had relationship with my best friend end. and all i can say is. when u argue alot, when u complain constantly about them stuff like that and if u think ur gonna break up soon then get ready cuz u might.

Answer 4

If you have a feeling it's headed that way, then it probably is. No doubt. If the love isn't there anymore, don't be wasting your time with it!

Answer 5

if ur asking this ? then it's near the end for ur realationship

Answer 6

u know when he talks to u less and when u 2 are talking his mind is sometimes elsewhere

Answer 7

one or the other starts to change.. they act a little funny and it starts to become akward to be around eachother

Answer 8

I know this sounds horribly cliche, but you just know.

Answer 9

When you have to ask