am i crazy or inlove?i saw my boyfriend yesterday and miss him already cant stop thinkin about him he is like everywhere.but the bad thing is im not gonna see him for like 9 to 10 months!!!and i cant bare to think that im not gonna see him for that long!and wright now im crying like a baby!!!:(:(:(
2006-08-24 06:01:49 · 23 answers · asked by victoria k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're not crazy, This is what you call love, you are in love with this guy and you hate the fact that you will not be with him for 9 to 10 month and its bothering you so bad because he will not be there for you for the length of time. Tell him to call you everyday to make sure he is ok and to talk to him. I have been in your situation, just keep in touch with him everyday!!! I am sorry but stop crying, everything will be ok as long as you and help stay in contact everyday. if you need a friend to share your emotional feelings to email me i am here for you everything will be ok.
2006-08-24 06:10:14 · answer #1 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how u feel. My boyf is a soldier and when he goes away on tour 4 6 months 2 places like Kosovo, Irak, Afganistan etc it kills me on the inside 2 know I'll not get 2 see him 4 the next half year. It never gets any easier saying goodbye and he's going 2 Isreal in November. I just look 4ward to when he comes back and put all my thoughts in2 that. It doesn't help that much, but does put a smile on my face when I think of all the things I can plan doing with him when he finally does come back. I hope that helps - even if just a little bit. xxx
2006-08-24 13:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by Haylie T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go shopping for a sex toy, you could meet a nice bloke when you sit down for coffee later, just start a conversation by saying your boyfriend is out of town and would they like to see what you've purchased?
Before you know it you'll be in the back of a cab heading for this strangers house and checking your mobile phone to see if it is still charged and has a signal.
As you'll be concerned mainly about your own personal safety at that point, thoughts about your absent boyfriend will quickly diminish.
2006-08-24 13:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're just in love honey. It's totally normal. Usually when ppl are away from each other that long, it makes them realize how much they miss/care about each other. You're not crazy!!! I'm guessing he's going away for the army or something....Thank him for me if that's the case.
Good luck with everything and keep yourself busy while he's gone...ex: get a part time job, join the YMCA, make dinner dates with your friends, etc....
2006-08-24 13:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by jso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is normal
you gotta make sure to get involved with something to keep you busy so you have less time to think about him
but make no mistake by cheating while he is there for you you probably regret it
good luck
PS. the longer you wont see the you will love him when he comes back
2006-08-24 13:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by salsa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not crazy you know hes gonna be gone for that amount and it hurts you will still miss and it will still hurt but get easier for awhile, hold in there and its ok to cry ya dont and ya will go crazy good luck
2006-08-24 13:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a form of madness .. It takes away all of you sense, makes you act like a fool .. And still you don't care .. You just smile at everything.
2006-08-24 13:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by Hippy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship is over and you know it and thats why your crying like crazy and missing him unbeleivably.......... I am sorry but there are other guys in the world.......... I wish you the best. Blessed be.
2006-08-24 13:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop crying like a baby, keep yourself busy...the months will fly past before you know it...my x-boyfriend hasn't spoken to me in a month....the time i keep myself busy...i don't think about him and how much he hurt me.
2006-08-24 13:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by Evie L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In love... i feel the same, my mans been in Iraq since April and not back til Nov... Its love baby
2006-08-24 13:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋