Since you met him he has been honest with you about his situtation, you and he had sparks since you first laid eyes on each other and in the couple months you've known him he has gotten rid of a couple, and it is possible for the others to make an exit as well. The chemistry between you to is so strong but, do you fight it? or do you give him time which he has reguest to get his things in order? Can you really trust an ex-player to be a one woman man?
2006-08-24 05:59:38 · 33 answers · asked by Thickestchic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No Way!
2006-08-24 06:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by MICO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If I decided I was determined to try with this man, I would go out with him if he asked... but he wouldn't be getting any till all the women were gone but me. I would tell him that. I would also tell him that I was worth being his one and only, and if he wants me, those are the terms. If he doesn't pony up, he's just not that interested and I move on.
Then if he ponied up, he'd be on probation for the first six months or so... not that I would tell him THAT... and if another chicky came sniffing round, I'd keep quiet, keep calm, and wait and see. If anything at all happened... BAM. He's out.
How long till I'd trust him enough? It'd depend on his attitude towards me and a lot of other things. Probably a year of complete dedication. If he's ready and you keep the attitude that you're worth it, he'll do it. If not, well, no, you can't.
2006-08-24 06:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by Bitsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sweetie. not just yet. It is highly impossible for him to stick to you because he would have already gotten rid of all the others if he saw something precious in you. And there ain't no way of knowing how honest he really is. a man who would date "a few" women at a time obviously does not have the same goals as u. Look past the "chemistry" (or infatuation) that y'all have. Would you ever want to b "the other woman"? if not, let him go. . .
2006-08-24 06:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by X box lady(who doesnt play Xbox) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way. For all you know, he just got bored with the other girls and dismissed them. How do you know that he didnt have sparks with the other girls?
Also, by him telling you that he has other girls in his life is just a set up. After dating him for a while he will probably start roaming and what can you say to him, you knew he was a player.
I think you should walk away form this one. Maybe another time and place it could have been something else.
2006-08-24 06:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by dionne m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go with him until he gets rid of them all for you and you know it. I don't know who sings the "Gallery" song on the radio...but I think that explains how I feel about this situation. He could just be playing you and faking the chemistry. Don't put yourself into a position to get hurt. I would wait until I knew he changed. I wouldn't date a player, personally. That doesn't mean never...it just means not right now.
2006-08-24 06:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by Modern_Monroe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is more than a casual thing. I would have to drop him. I do not have time for mind games or players. Time to get things in order. PLEASE how long does it take to dump someone. He is not and EX player he is a current player and he is playing you. Woman who fall for this crap are the reason that men think it is ok to play. If you put up with this crap he will have no respect for you because you have no respect for yourself.
2006-08-24 06:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as an ex-player-once a player always a player-girl get the hell out of that relationship if you dont want to get hurt.
2006-08-24 06:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by Mic_S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is actually a mathematical answer to this. i have been removed from my studies for a few years, but as i recall, it goes something like this: the larger the man's penis, the more stuff he can get away with...and still keep you interested. more than 10 inches means that you will actually be interested at times for the rest of your life.
2006-08-24 06:19:35 · answer #8 · answered by bill loomer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How you get your man is how you lose your man!!! He may stop being a player for little bit,but as soon somethin' new come along he will just move. Save your time and energy for someone who wants u and only u!!!
2006-08-24 06:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thinks it possible to trust him, but how do you know for sure. even though he was trying to be honest with you but how do you really know. Be careful girlfriend cos you don't want any drama.
And also remember he is an ex-player so you be careful that he don't play you!!!!
2006-08-24 06:16:00 · answer #10 · answered by thickness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation. When my wife and I met, I was dating two girls. It wasn't serious. One of them dropped out of the race, then got married, then got divorced. The other hung on until I let her go. Along the way, there was another girl who I got interested in and then lost interest in. But when I got serious with a girl, then I got serious. If it's casual, then it's casual. If it's serious, it should be serious.
2006-08-24 06:05:51 · answer #11 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋