How come most of the guys in this world now a days cheat lie have no manners and are soo imature!! why are they like that??? they can be such jerks!! My ex is like so annoying he cheated on me TWICE and on IM he won't take my picture off of his display image!!??? it's getting annoying!! he says he still loves me but why did he cheat if he does?? Im never going back to him!! but he's being such a jerk!! I told him to go find another girl to love he said he's tried and im the only girl he ever wants!! I told him he coulden't have me anymore and I told him I woulden't be suprised if he lived at home with his mother all his horrible life!! I feel guilty but then again I feel mad at him!!
2006-08-24 05:52:38 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i agree with u girl!u rock for not taking him back.if he really loved u like he says he does,then he wouldnt have cheated on u.stand ur ground and find a better guy who will treat u right!!!
2006-08-24 05:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Darlin'...
Just remember that there are 3 billion other guys out there. You are far more likely to find another guy that is willing to do all the right things for you, and make you a very happy person. Don't waste your time with this guy. He obviously doesn't have your best interests at heart if he is being selfish by not removing your picture from his Im account. He should respect your wishes... and he isn't. Forget about him. Dont ever feel guilty for ending a relationship. If if felt guilty for ending relationships.... I would have been tied down to a horrible relationship... god knows how many times. It isn't your fault he cheated on you... it isn't your fault that the relationship SHOULD end because of HIS actions. so dont let him put a guilt trip on you because HE MESSED UP. If anything... you should feel better about yourself for staying strong, dumping him, and finding someone that truly deserves someone like you. You are the best thing that will happen to someone, and you deserve to find someone equally important.
There are guys that want meaningful relationships, that dont cheat (at least I know I dont). you just have to keep looking for them. Pay attention to where you are meeting these guys. If you are meeting them at a club, you are likely to find guys that WONT be loyal.
Good Luck
2006-08-24 06:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know from experience that this is a very shaky subject. If u are serious about not going back to him then u need to cut off all contact with him. Do not accept his calls....even change your number if u have too. As far as why men cheat that will never be explained. But don't give up there are some good guys still out there....... and finally don't feel bad about making smart remarks to him he deserves that at the least for cheating on you!!!
2006-08-24 05:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by sanita1978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys aren't jerks but I do know some are. You have to be very careful on who you are chosing these days. Guys just use you girls. I really feel sorry for each and everyone of you people but there isn't thing I can do. Just remmeber some day there will be a special somebody out there for you that will treat you better then anything and thats when you will be happy and reallg glad that you dropped that idiot. Until then ...do take care and stick with your decision of being away from that clown.
2006-08-24 06:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by Gez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK seriously that's an over statement that most guys are immature, bad mannered, cheat and lie.
And from what i understand about what you are saying you are judging all the guys out there just because your ex was an asshole.
Ive had bad girlfriends too you know but Ive also had really good ones and I'm sure you have as well.
2006-08-24 05:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i been cheated on in every relationship I had and i'm 41 yrs old...and to answer the ? is that all guys are jerks and as long as there is noone to raise them the right way thats how they will be....one day you will find that mr right but you most likely will meet up with a lot of jerk in the mean time....good luck in life...
2006-08-24 05:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by Helen L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a guy and i can honestly say that not all of us are like that. In fact, the minority is and it ruins it for the rest of us who are not.
Dumb a s s guys who cheat are bad boys. Recognizing the bad boy is easy too... they often have pity parties to bring other people down to their level of stupidity. They gather in groups and act out silliness then hurt others in the process. They can only play one hat in life when life requires you to be able to play many at any given time.
2006-08-24 05:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to correct you. Its the majority of women who cheat and lie this being said they suspect all men of doing the same. You are probably one of them. Or maybe I'm over-generalizing (in fact being prejudice) based upon too narrow a Field of experience to judge a whole group.
2006-08-24 06:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are pigs. What can anyone say. Some women are too judging by the bimbo who answered the question first. Hang in there and ignore him. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-08-24 07:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you feeling guilty if you don't want him. Guilty feelings sound like you still have feelings for him.
You need to stop IM him and get over he has a picture of you.
Move on and stop contact and stop giving a crap about little stuff
2006-08-24 05:59:02 · answer #10 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because the ones that dont are bad boys and you to honest to deal with. The men you like would rather lie and cheat to mak eyou feel better
me, I'll tell you in a flash, I LOVE WOMEN
YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE
why, better to be honest with yourself then to lie to kick it
thats why. You want perfection in hell...not going to happen
2006-08-24 05:54:58 · answer #11 · answered by Xae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋