u see my bf wrote one of his exs and said all that. i asked him about n he said that he wrote that before we stated dating, n he resent them to her without knowing what they said. what should i do i mean i really love him n we been off n on for about 5 years . n we want it to last this time.
2006-08-24 05:49:46 · 25 answers · asked by babyboo13032 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him.
Move on.
2006-08-24 05:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go for now. Just keep it in mind in case he does more things that indicate he may be cheating on you. But as long as he treats you the way you want to be treated, everything should be ok.
Don't be rash. Dumping him now won't hurt you less than dumping him in a few months, it that is what you end up having to do. But dumping him now will hurt a lot more than staying with him if it turns out it meant nothing.
2006-08-24 05:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can tell girlfriend is that men do lie about all sorts of things,So try and ignore whatever he did, that's if you love him. Continue with the relationship and don't talk about his ex or the emails. He may tend to feel rather guilty and just end up telling you everthing. Learn how to treat your man, coz if he knows your weakest spot before you know his, girl your gone! Treat him well...
2006-08-24 05:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by Miss M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he even talking to her in the first place? There was a reason that they broker up and now he is sending her emails? I don't think so there is more then just the emails. Move on with your life and find someone new.
2006-08-24 05:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by anisarkisyan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may want it to last this time, but he seems to be up in the air about it, or he is trying to have his cake and eat it too.
you need to move on, he is a huge accident waiting to happen. Find someone who will appreciate you for you and not how gullible you are, so that he can get away with just about everything.
2006-08-24 05:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by whatelks67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't even trust him enough to not go through his emails why are you with him in the first place? I think reading someone else's email is an invasion of privacy. Either you trust him or you don't.
2006-08-24 05:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by chartneck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just went through this. i confronted him and he said he didnt send them. he was talking to his ex late at night when i was sleeping and he is now with her. i suggest you talk it over and make sure he knows how you feel and you know how he feels, if he wants to be with her it is so much easier if he will just tell you now rather than shattering your heart later when he has already done the worst. Talk it over you guys can work things out!
2006-08-24 05:56:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your gettin played, wanna make it another 5 years on and off?
2006-08-24 05:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run as far away from this man he will never change so don't put your own sanity on the line. It will bring bad things.
2006-08-24 05:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you and him need to sty off and not get back on he's playing you and still have feelings for his ex even if he says what ever that is he's telling you he's lying to you
2006-08-24 05:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check the date on the email, then you know if he's lying or not, if he is, then, dump him of course.
2006-08-24 05:53:24 · answer #11 · answered by elguzano1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋