well i there is this guy and me n him have been wit each other since april but we have had like 3 big arguements and this recent one almost split us apart and i was so scared and i dont want us to break up but i still have love for my ex but i love this boii that i have now WAY more and my ex and these other boys r tryna tell him im goin out wit dem and im not im wit him and only him but someone please help me with this i need advice BAD and also i keep hearin from my friends n stuff dat all he wants is a piece of booty and i asked him n he said no and i keep gettin feelings dat he is talkin to some other girls i jus dont kno wat to do HELP
2006-08-24 05:34:35 · 13 answers · asked by $_$aRiEl$_$ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lighten up, honey. You're not married to the guy, ok? You have plenty of time to latch on like a leach to a man. The guy has a right to date whomever he pleases without you badgering him. And YES, he's a guy...he wants booty from anyone he can get it from! That's the nature of the beast. Relax and find yourself another boyfriend. Or just a friend who happens to be a boy. Good Luck.
2006-08-24 05:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing about NEW love is that all emotions are running ON HIGH>>>> meaning even small arguements get large very quickly. You just gotta get to the point where the little stuff no longer bothers you because in the big picture you want to be together. Does that make sense... I hope so. Also, it sounds like both of you are young... Dont take this the wrong way... Love when you are young is great, but its not going to last anyways... so let it go and better yourself for YOUR future. I emphasise YOUR future because if you are a better person- then the men will follow you anywhere!
2006-08-24 12:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to learn how to write in the english language. Some punctuation would be nice. From the rambling sentence I gather that you left your boy for another boy, both of which are players looking for booty. I'd drop them both and get a man that is respectful of women. Don't settle for morons.
2006-08-24 12:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by 45Fan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u keep getting those kinda bad feeling about him, then kick him out there! trust ur instincts! what does ur heart say? there's always someone better out there and it'll just take time to find him so be patient and don't rush into anything. if u go on with that relationship, u'll continue to be in that situation of being torn between following ur friends and that guy of urs. u want to go through a lifetime of that? or one month of crying over the breakup?
2006-08-24 12:42:14 · answer #4 · answered by evanescent_eclipse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow dude! Umm... Well, what MY friend did when this happened to her is broke up with her BF and stayed away from both of them for a while. After you have time away from the situation, it's a lot easier to process it and figure out who deserves you, if anyone! Good luck!
2006-08-24 12:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this question pops up in your mind, he is not right for you. Let's get real, which guy do not want a piece of a gal's booty when he start going out with her?
2006-08-24 12:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by KL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you are neither ready for a long term relationship! Think about it for awhile!
2006-08-24 12:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he wants someone else to leave you alone. You aren't around to play games.
2006-08-24 12:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by gg_kelley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use less gangsta spelling next time if you want answers.
2006-08-24 12:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS NOT THE BOY FOR YOU CAZ WHEN YOU SEE LOVE IS LOVE AN THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT HE DOSNT LOVE YOU
2006-08-24 12:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by scarlet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋