i have sister...who thinks that she is a boy-tomboy,but i need a sweet lovely sister....i keep telling her that she is a girl..and even i give her new nick names those are girly but she never changes.......plz help me..give me some sweet answers with which she relises that she is a girl not a boy....plz if i liked ur answer u can earn 10 points.....
2006-08-24 05:21:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i have sister(she is 7yrs old)...who thinks that she is a boy-tomboy,but i need a sweet lovely sister....i keep telling her that she is a girl..and even i give her new nick names those are girly but she never changes.......plz help me..give me some sweet answers with which she relises that she is a girl not a boy....plz if i liked ur answer u can earn 10 points.....
2006-08-24 09:11:06 · update #1
She may grow out of it. I was a tomboy, but now I do normal "girl stuff". Don't push her on this, it'll make her less likely to be how you want.
And she may not grow out of it. Perhaps she identifies with the male gender. You should accept her for the way she is. Shes your fam!
2006-08-24 05:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by kermit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what age she is, if she's about eight or nine then she will get over it, she will see that maybe she could be girl that likes to play sports, just a complete girly girl is kinda scary, so just tell her that she can be a girl who looks like a girl but can get down and dirty with the boys (in a good way of course!)
2006-08-24 12:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 25 years old and I've always been tomboyish. My mother was trying to help me be more feminine when I was a kid. This is who I am and this is what I'm comfortable with. There is nothing wrong with being a tomboy. I was out playing football, hiking, camping, fishing, biking, etc. I have never been interested in girly things.
My best friend and I go clubbing and I dress like myself and still people accept me for who I am. Also, I am married and my husband loves me for who I am also. I look like a girl, but I'm more tomboyish. Let your sister be who she is comfortable being.
2006-08-24 12:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure your sister knows she is a girl. But you have to realize that everyone is different. There is plenty of room in this world for Tomboy's. In time, she may decide she wants to be more girly. Ultimately, it really is her decision. It's probably just the way she is. Try accepting her the way she is and loving her differences.
2006-08-24 12:25:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You might try telling her how you feel. Tell her you need a sweet loving sister, not a brother. That you need a sister that you can share things with and someone you can confide in. Tell her you are lonely and would like her to be there for you like a sister would be. Tell her you love her,but need a girls view point not a brothers.Good Luck . I hope you get your wish.
2006-08-24 12:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a tom-boy she's not going to appreciate the girly things. Best thing i can suggest is do some of the things that she likes to do with her until she develops a relationship with you then take her with you and some of your friends... maybe you will meet somewhere in the middle...
2006-08-24 12:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, Madam, you cannot change her, till she matures bodily and mentally. She is still in learning stage and age. Let it be done by your parents. Why do you want to change her? It is not your responsibility. Is she parent-less? If she has no parents, you can take care of her. It is the responsibility of your parents to give advice, teach manners, home management, self management, etc., to both of you. After some years, both of you go different ways.
Never mind her any more, instead, mind your self and make your self ready to face life problems. Her problem is not your problem.
2006-08-27 11:41:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off let me ask you how old is your sister? If she is under the age of 12 you probably have nothing to worrry about because she will probably grow out of this stage. Secondly my sister was exactaly like this growing up she kept her hair very short wore only boy clothes shoes etc. And when she grew up she came out to us and told us she was gay. So either way be nice to her let her be who she is she may grow out of this on her own or not.
2006-08-24 12:26:48 · answer #8 · answered by raechelblueeyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's younger invite her to hang out with you and your friends, have a sleepover and do all the girly stuff, bring her shopping with you for dresses, etc.
2006-08-24 12:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by hodagwriter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't u just make Ur sis stand in front of the mirror tell her to look at herself , if it does not work then change her way of dressing....this also does not work then tell me, i will think of some thing else
2006-08-25 07:53:28 · answer #10 · answered by pearl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋