I love him but it was so gross, he hasn't mentioned it since and has carried on as normal. I think he doesn't remember but I can't face sex with him anymore.
2006-08-24 05:20:05 · 25 answers · asked by massive ding dong 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shat: pooed, sh it, defacated, crapped etc...
2006-08-24 05:24:11 · update #1
you need to tell him that whilst intoxicated ,he acted a bit out of the ordinary,in a way which was not endearing. ask him if he remembers what happened. if he doesn't ,but wants to know, you should warn him that it can be considered by most as a bit too far.then if he insists , you need to tell him, because even if you seperate he should know what happened so that if itis a fetish that he gets the ext person's permission.
i don't know ,if maybe alcohol really loosens him up so that he did not have control, but i think if you are awake enough to be having sex, then you should realise if you are shitting.
i hope you can get over it,if it was an innocent mishap.
2006-08-24 05:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by saywot? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to mention this to him and see if he does remember. It may be very embarassing for him, but it has grossed you out so much that you need to get it resolved. If he just did it because he was drunk and out of control then ok, forgive and forget. If he did it because he likes to do it then I would say that if you are not into it you must tell him never to do it again as you find it so repulsive that it will spoil you're relationship so much that it will split you up. Maybe it was just a drunken accident and he is very very embarassed and dosen't want to talk about it at all, but you need to talk to him anyway. If he loves you he will talk about it and then you can go forward to some sort of conclusion. Hope you sort it out soon and get the relationship back on an even keel. Good luck.
2006-08-24 05:28:26 · answer #2 · answered by Confused . com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait.... was it done on purpose? Were you into it at the time? I think that's absolutely disgusting and there's something inherently wrong with that type of act. I personally wouldn't be able to look at the person the same way.... he'd be "tainted" in my eyes. I've been strong and mature enough to let a person go... are you?
2006-08-24 05:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by Jules 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Telling him might make him feel the same way as you not wanting too have sex again either. It must be so humiliating, personally i would have knocked him out there and then. Drunk or not drunk.........not many honest people like yourself to admit such an act, i wouldn't look at him the same way either.
2006-08-24 06:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by flippling flishy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness that is terrible!!! OK accidents happen but...
Maybe you should talk with him about it and tell him how you are feeling. You may need to get him to address his drinking habits if he is having memory loss. If you really can't get past it though then you'll have to leave him. But remember sh*t happens!
2006-08-24 05:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by Sky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should bring it up. Make it a joke, like it's no big deal. His reply may actually make the occurance better. Talking about stuff always makes it better! Good luck!
2006-08-24 05:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by Recreantess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man he must have been concentrating a little to hard. If i did that to my girlfriend i wouldn't be expecting sex from her for a very long time
2006-08-24 05:26:17 · answer #7 · answered by jedikn1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, i'm sorry but that is funny! Get rid of him if it's bothering you that much though. Why on earth did he do that? Was it an accident? If it was, maybe he's really embarassed. If he meant to do it though, give him the elbow..........
2006-08-24 06:24:49 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just have to come to terms with reality..the thing is u were drunk and shitting on u is not something that u might be ashamed of ..just let bygones be bygones and move on with life as he has done ..if u keep on dwelling in the past u will destroy your relationship...
2006-08-24 05:24:37 · answer #9 · answered by Funkmaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes! Unless you like rolling in feces I'd either not let him get drunk like that or I'd ditch him for someone with a better control of his bowels.
2006-08-24 05:24:21 · answer #10 · answered by 45Fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋