What is wrong with me?

Question

i just can't get a boyfriend, i mean, ya i'm only 13, but still about every girl in my grade has had atleast one boyfriend, and i feel pethedic since i'm the only one who hasn't, and i don't know if its because i am ugly or fat or something but i just wish that i knew, can you please help me

Answer 1

It's all in the confidence.

And if it's your image your worried about a picture would have helped...

Answer 2

Look Blondie, don't worry about boyfriends right now. You have your whole life ahead of you. Slow down and enjoy your life with your young friends. You don't need boy problems especially since you are so very young. Some day the right dude will come knocking. Until then, keep your panties on and get a good education, be a good girl and do your homework. Also, don't trust any adults out there. Most of them are perverts and pedolfiles waiting for a victim like you.
OK that is all. Good Luck with your life and be cool with the guys

Answer 3

There is nothing wrong with you. Know that you don't need a boyfriend to be happy. You are not the only one out there with no boyfriend it just feels that way. Look at it this way. The time will come soon enough when you will have a boyfriend and all the problems that come with it. Just enjoy being 13 and loving life and yourself. There is no better beauty then confidence.

Answer 4

MAYBE NOTHING. You have many years before you have to worry about boys. You should concentrate on being the best person you can be - study very hard, help others, become an expert at something, attend church, respect and love your parents, grandparents, brothers & sisters. Maybe even volunteer 1 day a week to help others who are less fortunate.

Then, be sure to eat right and exercise. Drink lots of water, walk an hour every day except 1 then do stretching and upper body toning. Eat fruits & vegetables.

No sugar
No sodas
No candy
No chips
No potatoes
No pasta
No pizza
no corn
no bread
no burgers
no fried foods

Good Luck

Answer 5

No disrespect to you but for every ugly girl in the world there are at least ten desperate guys who wouldnt say no.

I am not saying you are ugly, what I am saying is that there is something else causing you to not have a boyfriend ... trust me love, at your age that is NOTHING to worry about - you have all the time in the world to waste on men .. you should just be enjoying yourself with your mates right now and whatever happens will happen.

The reason you dont have one is probably just that you have more class than the others so dont come across as 'gagging for it' .. be proud of that ;)

Answer 6

If you're smart, you'll stay that way. Guys from the age of 13-26 are egotistical, selfish, dumb, and immature.

Use the next 13 years to get intelligent and prettier. All the girls that had boyfriends at your age now will be bitter and angry because by then, they will have been deceived so often that they will have gotten fat and ugly just to make a point.

Plus, at 26, you'll look hotter, more mature. You'll be a much better catch at that age.

Answer 7

You're 13 don't worry about it. There's plenty of time for boyfriends. Now if you were 30 and asking this I could say you might have a problem, but not at 13.

Answer 8

My dear. You are far too young. You will have a boyfriend when the time comes. Don't hurry just because all your friends have a bf or gf. I think that you are a lovely girl and that you deserve a very good boy, but for the moment you are too young to have a boyfriend. Don't compete with those stupid girls who all they think about is hooking up.

Answer 9

Other girls dont always tell the truth. It took me ages to find that out myself.
If anyone asks just say you dont want a boyfriend yet or that you are waiting for the right boy to come along. Be choosy and dont go with anyone until you really like him. You dont have to be like everyone else because you are special and unique and lovely. You are right.... you are only 13! Plenty of time for someone equally special to find you.

Answer 10

Listen to what I tell you ok and take it seriously
Whether or not you have a bf is not a big deal...You are too young to have a bf and a relationship..This is when you are supposed to be having fun with your freinds and going places making memories...You don't need a bf to be popular...Don't feel left out , just enjoy your life as is...you can have a relationship later
Watch and learn...at least one of your freinds is going to end up pregnant by the end of the school year...I can guarantee it..You don't want that

Answer 11

The only thing that's wrong with you is that you think something's wrong with you for not having a boyfriend. You will have many boyfriends throughout your life. Focus on yourself, build your confidence, improve your self-esteem. By doing this, you will improve your quality of life on so many levels...and you will attract the type of relationship that is good for you when the time is right. Hang in there!