I want to get success in life.But I know that I am very unlucky.God hates me.?

Question

Sometimes I think that I am useless on this Earth.I am not a complete loser but I want high rate of success in my life.I think that it is useless to live in this world as a middle class man.
Sometimes I think of leaving this World.
Why God not helping me?I am not a born winner but I want to get successfull in my life.Can U plz tell me how can I get success because to get high class of success only hard work is not sufficient.I am crying and wanna die but I can't do it because of my family.

Answer 1

NO. god doesnt hate you. ur not a loser. here is wat u should do:

1. find a job that u wanna do and if u havent gone to college go.
2. if u went to college for ur job, go to a couple of job interviews.
3. if u dont get hired dont think that u cant do it because u can
4. consider getting professional help for ur mental state.
5. god will help u. it wont be immediate but keep on goin to church and goin to confeesion and reciving the eucharist if ur catholic and all.
6. lower ur expectations. no one will go to high sucess in a day. u cant have high sucess unless u work hard. i no u think just hard work will get u nowhere. u no what will get u nowhere? thinking its just ur luck. nope. thats not true. luck has nothing to do with it.
7. consider hiring a life coach.
8. many people consider that middle clas is great. and it is! middle class is better than being rich. sucess and money is not all in life. if u only have sucess and money u will feel even more depressed and sucidal. if u only have family and u r middle class u have a GREAT LIFE!!!! change ur perspective and really think.
9. do some charity work. it will uplift ur spirit and show u that there are people in this world who would die to have ur life.
10. if u rele want high sucess do all these things i have mentioned and the following:
1. HOW YOU THINK IS EVERYTHING: Always be positive. Think success, not failure. Beware of a negative environment.
2 DECIDE UPON YOUR TRUE DREAMS AND GOALS: Write down your specific goals and develop a plan to reach them.
3 TAKE ACTION: Goals are nothing without action. Don’t be afraid to get started. Just do it.
4 NEVER STOP LEARNING: Go back to school or read books. Get training and acquire skills.
5 BE PERSISTENT AND WORK HARD: Success is a marathon, not a sprint. Never give up.
6 LEARN TO ANALYZE DETAILS: Get all the facts, all the input. Learn from your mistakes.
7 FOCUS YOUR TIME AND MONEY: Don’t let other people or things distract you.
8 DON’T BE AFRAID TO INNOVATE; BE DIFFERENT: Following the herd is a sure way to mediocrity.
9 DEAL AND COMMUNICATE WITH PEOPLE EFFECTIVELY: No person is an island. Learn to understand and motivate others.
10 BE HONEST AND DEPENDABLE; TAKE RESPONSIBILITY: otherwise, Nos. 1-9 won’t matter.


please whatever u do tell ur family and they will help u. dont resort to violence or crime. that will knock ur sucess all he way down to the bottom. DO NOT COMMIT SUICIDE!!!!!! no matter how bad things get, never just give up and die. NEVER. do not work ur way p the sucess ladder by cheating and lying. if u do that eventually u will feel so dirty and ull wanna die again.

please this is some of the best advice ive ever given. take it and my best wishes

Answer 2

To success in your life, learn from your mistakes and your experiences. You could learn something new from every passing day. Create from your knowledge a success. Don’t ever use negative expressions like “unlucky” or “god hates me” because this expirations will leads you to surrender your self to a total failure. Use terms like “I will try again” and cheers your self, smile, be happy, because you are alive.
Killing your self will never fix your situation; it will destroy your self and your family. Sorry to say but suicide is for cowards who can not face the reality. Don’t be a coward, be a brave.
Can you write? I am sure you can. Try to write your own plane for your life. Try to think and write down your ideas, publish it to the people, and sell it to them. The information is the most valuable item in these days; companies will pay you for your ideas.
If you can travel, go and see the world, visit places where you never been before. Go and visit a “developing country” and see how the people are living there, and compare it to your self, and see if you are lucky or not. Are you lucky? It is hard to say if you are lucky or not, some people will see you as the “luckiest” man on earth, others will see you as the “most unlucky man”, let me tell you; keep the terms “lucky or unlucky” for astrologists. Good luck and forget all about negative thoughts.

Answer 3

Don't ever hold on to the 'I am unlucky' thought!
You are programming your subconscious to make you right.
That is why positive thinking is such a powerful tool. You need to focus on what you want in life, really want badly.
This is a habit you will have to establish, but it will work IF you do it.
When I was 19, I also played with the thought of committing suicide, but after that I only used that thought to accept, that I could always use that as an easy out, if things became unbearable.
It obviously never came to that point, otherwise I wouldn't be writing this. ;-)
I wish you good luck! (Which you will have when you turn your thinking around!)
Best definition of luck is 'when opportunity and preparedness come together'. So, prepare! :-)

Answer 4

You mentioned God....obviously you are not completely godless. Now do me a favor and reread what you wrote. Get pencil and paper. Ready?...here's what I want you to do: count all the words and phrases that are negative...such as "unlucky", "hates",."useless",....."leaving this world"...etc. You know - we Christians believe in the power of words that come out of your mouth. ....that the devil can hear you when you speak those words...and will go right at you and never let go, because you sound so vulnerable and weak. Those are the kind of traits that make you not reach your potential...Stop talking negatively and start speaking positively...self affirmations...such as....I'm a winner....I love life...I will be successful...and have Jesus in your heart, because with Him...you will be the best you can be.
To you I also suggest the "Living the 7 Habits" book by Stephen R. Covey"...the insights you will gather from that book will help you find success, because it will teach you how to develop a mind of a winner.
Peace and God bless.

Answer 5

God does not "hate" or even "dislike" you...He created you..How could He hate anything He created? He loved you enough to give you life and you are very special to Him.

In creating you, He gave your life a purpose, but He also gave you free will to choose your own path. While the choices you make are yours, God has always been by your side. You may not be aware of it , but He speaks to you about every decision you make..perhaps you just don't recognize it or are not listening to your heart and/or intuition. While God is in control of all things, He will not interefere with your choices unless there are lessons to be learned in those choices. I strongly believe that God hurts for us when we are in pain and unhappy and cries with us when we cry.

I also believe that there are many times in our lives when God has no choice but to "put us on our backs" because that's the only He can get us to look up - to Him - for help.

I believe in order to find true peace and happiness, one must connect with his spirit, which is God in us all, and seek His help and guidance in the paths we take. When we live in our egos, we are Edging God Out and we will never feel like the "winners" He designed and created us to be. I also believe that you must change your way of negative thinking about yourself..start telling and seeing yourself as lucky and successful (an affirmation) and you will be surprised at how you will begin to feel that way.

I wonder what your definition of "success" is...success and happiness is not found in your pocketbook or at the end of a certain goal - it's in the journey. God does not measure our success by our financial status or materialism..real success is measured by the size our of hearts, how we live our lives from day to day and how we serve Him. It is through our giving and generous spirits that we find true happiness and success.

At the end of the day, if you can say you have made a difference in someone else's day by reaching out and helping them; that you've not hurt or offended anyone; if you've given the best you possibly could; and you've thanked God for the blessings He has given you, then you've had a very successful day - and you truly are a winner!

Might I suggest you read that wonderful book titled "The Purpose Driven Life" by Rick Warren? It would be my prayers that it would help you find hope, as it did for me.

One more thing...I don't think anyone will ever sit at the bedside of a dying man and hear him say, "I wish I'd spent more time at the office, or I wish I had made more money..I would have been happy and successful"...
God bless you..

Answer 6

You need to believe in yourself and maybe you need to find something you really like to do. Everyone has something in them that you get you were you want to be. I been saying those things because I felt like no one liked me and I felt bad for myself because never in my life had a boyfriend and I felt like I want to have the attention but never had. Now what I think is about my goals in life to become a teacher and for now open a day care. I really want a boyfriend and have fun but I guess that can still wait. But you have to count on you and even one person if fine to help you with ideas. I bet you are a great person and you can do it.

One thing like my cousin of 3 years old tells herself and others YOU CAN DO IT!

Answer 7

Don't worry God is helping you.You just don't know it now.Do work to your bestest ability.God will do the rest.

I know its hard being in a middle class family but so am I.Just do your best and never feel alone or left out because God is there always even when one does wrong.He is with you always.

Answer 8

I think you need to take a deep breath and sort out your feeelings/the issues.

First you need to define what success means to you

Then you need take stalk in yourself, determine what you are made of and capable of.

then you need to devise a plan to achieve your goals

I know one thing for sure success and luck are not related, success only come from hard work (f one sort or another) and I know many successful people that would trade all of their material goods for a good solid family life.

Answer 9

God loves you. He does not hate you. Please don't be so upset and think about wanting to die. You may be depressed. Talk to a doctor first to rule out any physical problem. If you are OK physically, please talk to the doctor about depression. Tell him or her how you are feeling.

Good luck to you.

Answer 10

no one is unlucky it is all in our minds. think positive, don't let things get to you, have confidience in what you do or say, and just take it one day at a time. things always look up!