sunday was my b-day & my husband totally spoiled it. he did'nt forget it though, I wanted to make love on this very special day and he told me it's sex free day bcause he's tired and until this day which is like 4 days afteer my b-day I have not recieve a gift yet. what he did on my b-day was just sleep. Is it he's totally unromantic or it's bcause he's now married to me so he does'nt have to try has hard as b4 we got married. from that day he saying to me why are being upset and I don't answer him. how can u do that to your spouse. guess what he did the same thing for our anniversary.
2006-08-24 04:14:09 · 19 answers · asked by stushie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sex free day on your birthday???
I'd go buy yourself a nice gift something you really like. On his birthday, go to the spa by yourself. If he gets all pissy, ask him what he got you for your last birthday.
2006-08-24 04:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk your husband is. I am sorry your birthday was ruined. Belated happy birthday from me.
I guess there is not anything any of us can do when our spouses do not wish to celebrate a special day. What I would do though to make other plans on his birthday. Spend the entire day out doing what you want to do. Ignore his birthday.
2006-08-27 20:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you got some issues at home. You need to sit him down and spell some things out NOW. You need to tell this man how you feel - just like you told the entire Yahoo world. If you can tell us you CAN tell him.
This is one of those problems that will GROW, if you let it go you are only compounding the problem. So, what are you going to do??? Only YOU can stand up for YOU!
2006-08-24 04:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I'd dearly love to say something terribly rude about your husband....I'll refrain & try to give the benefit of the doubt. First things first. Make an appointment with his doctor & drag him in to see if there is something medically wrong with him.
If there's nothing found....then well.....I think I'll stop before I scream, curse, or throw something.
2006-08-24 04:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by Shadow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart you really want to know whats going on? Remember that the truth hurts... You should leave him because he is not in love with you and he has another one. I'm so sorry to say this but that is the truth. There is no way in life that a gentleman who really loves his lady will say that I'm to tire to make love to her. Open your eyes and smell the coffee. EFIL
2006-08-24 04:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need sit down and tlak with him, I mean really. Tell him what you did and how it makes you feel, that it seem likes he doesnt even care about you. You need to express how you truly feel to him. Explain to him how important it is that he show you that your loved. Because what he did was cheap and not right. YOu know I would even go as far as not even giving him sex again until he relizes what he did and understand that he was wrong. PUnish him, make him feel like hes dirt
2006-08-24 04:20:10 · answer #6 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean in case you obtain it like that then yeah as long because it do no longer bypass to their heads and that they initiate manipulating you adult males to get what they elect . additionally enable them to work out that thief complicated works earned them the greater beneficial issues they have so as that they wont be forgetting complicated artwork ethics. Snd in case you relatively hmgit it like that take them kb a trio to a third international u . s . a . to intercourse that every physique font hAve as solid as they do. And to be grateful because of the fact in a 2nd it ought to all be taken. Or look no extra than your interior of sight inner city. there is multiple previous efficient homeless people who lost their properties and automobiles maybe because of the fact of a undesirable deal. And practice them that they dint elect the stuff to be happy or supply them identity because of the fact if stuff is who you're then who're you while that's long previous( it relatively is why soccer gamers bypass loopy while they could't play soccer not greater, because of the fact their finished existence and identity relies off of carry a soccer participant.) additionally enable them to no approximately your up bringing. and be sure they have chores and steadily study the thank you to do for themselves : wash outfits, prepare dinner, clean, study their sociAl risk-free practices by coronary heart, fill out papers, etc etc. ( mommy and daddy should not be There continually
2016-12-11 14:32:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For his B-day get him an Elton John or Boy George CD....
I think your husband is ready to come out of the closet...
If you don't have any kids - leave now while you can...
NO MAN PASSES UP B-DAY SEX... or sex in general...
2006-08-24 04:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the..... No guy I know would pass a chance at sex. He is tired? Maybe you need to ask him what he's been up to. Passing on teh sex is the first sign of an affair.
2006-08-24 04:17:46 · answer #9 · answered by uranium9v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is selfish. He is not going to consider your feelings---ever. Some husbands are jerks and you got one. He probably takes pleasure in hurting you feelings and not pleasure in making you happy. If this is a pattern with him, expect it to continue and get worse...or dump him and find a real man.
2006-08-24 04:18:30 · answer #10 · answered by Nunya B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋