do u ever think it is gud to use bad words like f***, ba****d...show rude hand gesture when one gets angry??

Question

do u think we have to use such kind of words in our day to day talking....to swear indiscriminately.?..some people use it so frequently.....does it portray that ur a bad person? in just ur first meeting do u tend to like a person who doesnt include foul language in his/her conversation more or a person who uses it?

Answer 1

Getting angry is never good. Using bad words frequently is a mild perverson.

Answer 2

"gud"?
What the heck is that word?

Look - language, when used in the proper context, is appropriate for the circumstance.

For example - I'm driving in my car, obeying the law, the light is green and I proceed through the intersection.
They you come out from the side street run a red light and narrowly avoid crashing into me.
What do you think I'm going to say in that situation?
Right.
And I'll use a hand gesture as well.
Is it proper ("gud") for me to do that?
No, but considering the startling situation, it is to be expected that a person would have that kind of verbal outburst.

Now, for an inappropriate example:
I'm with my five-year old at a toy store.
You are in the next isle, talking on your cell phone (talking loudly, I might add).
In the course of your conversation, you casually use words like sh*t, f*ck, etc...
My son hears this, as I do.
This is not acceptable in a place where children are.
It really isn't acceptable in any public place to casually drop those kinds of words, because that kind of language is offensive.

Do I think people are bad because they use those kinds of words in casual conversation?
No.
Just ignorant.
And weak-minded, because they cannot come up with more creative forms of expression.

And I'd rather be around people that do NOT use foul language, just as I'd rather not be around smokers.
Both are offensive to my senses.
And that is my choice.

Answer 3

It's never OK to use those words.
I believe that a person who uses bad language and suggestive hand signals, is not ,truly in control of themselves, and has to show how big, bad, and dangerous they are, because they feel intimidated by someone's words or actions.
It would be better not to get angry at all .
Respect yourself, and others, and treat the situations/actions, with the most appropriate action that can deal with it.
Caring for others, compassion for all other people, and Respect will win out on the day most times.
Remember!! Practice makes perfect.

Answer 4

Those who use foul language are just ignorant and cannot choose a better word to use at the time. I'm guilty at times, but I don't cuss like a sailor...It's not necessary, really. I don't feel that I'm a bad person though because of choice words I use on occassion. I ask forgiveness, so I'll be alright...

Answer 5

Nowadays the more colourful language is used too such and extreme that its impact has been lost...Mmm that gives me an idea for a question!! K x

Answer 6

People who usually use bad language all the time are trying to impress people and they only turn people off instead.There are much better ways to use language.Most of those who curse all the time usually have grown up with that as well everyone knows the words - it's your choice as to weather or not you use them.

Answer 7

Honestly, I find "bad words" overrated, overused, pointless, annoying and uncreative. Obviously there are plenty of other words in our language to use... I wouldn't label a person "bad" just for saying them, but it does make me want to find someone else to talk with!

Answer 8

Just shows a persons ignorance. A real lack of communication skills.

Answer 9

I think it portrays a person mentality

Answer 10

if you use those words that is what is in your heart. i think once you get to a certain place with jesus you forget all those words and the hate and anger is out of your heart!! we are all human and no one is perfect