If you found out your boyfreind had a myspace account and didnt tell you and he has been leaving stupid messages for girls and emailing them?He says its just fun and none of its real.What do you think?Dump him?We have been together 3 years and i thought i trusted him.
2006-08-24 03:52:45 · 26 answers · asked by jo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That sucks! Put him to the test... make up an account and put up pictures but not of you...try to talk to him and see how far he takes it.
2006-08-24 03:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by qtiebabie06 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel and you're right, but is it worth it dumping him for some stupid things he has done. I would be mad at him too, but it is better if you talk to him, tell him that you REALLY don't like what he did and that you expect him to cancel those accounts and to be sincere now on. If he looks repented and promises (and he really means it) that he is never going to lie to you again, then forgive him. You have been together for 3 years, and now breaking up because of smth stupid...it's not fair.
I hope things go for the best way possible.
Good luck
2006-08-24 04:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by atrabel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah whatever, once he's not meeting up with these girls what;s the harm, it's only a bit of fun and he's still with you. Take his word for it and I really don't think this is a trust situation, he didn't tell you any lies, admitted it when you asked him about it, so whats not to trust. if you love him (and he loves you) leave it, it is definately not worth breakingup a relationship. And why not do the same have a bit of flirty fun yourself as I said no harm from the safety of your own home!!!
2006-08-24 03:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't worry. If you have a trouble with trustinig him, just keep an eye on it... If you are quite confident and secure in your relationship with him let him have fun. The man I have been for 6years looks at pictures of women on the internet, so what... But if you do really worry about him chatting to women ask if him if he would mind you reading the "funny stuff" sometimes on his permission. I guess he won't expect that but if it's only fun he should have some flexibility shoudln't he? to keep you feel secure? See his reaction? but this is only in case you are not at all comfortable with it.
2006-08-24 04:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would watch it but not leave him over it, tell him that he cant keep flirting a secret even if it is just for fun. Since myspace got big i've known 4 girls, and myself, get cheated on via it.. but i also know some people that use it and don't use it to cheat..
BEWARE
2006-08-24 03:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 years?? And you're going to give it up, just like that?! over a myspace account.. c'mon hun.. you've got to think if you really even want to be with him then. 3 years is a long time to just quit over something like that.
How about you get a myspace account and do the same thing.. he'll see how it feels and either stop.. or you'll just get to have fun on there like he does!
2006-08-24 03:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont dump him tell him you how you feel about it and tell him to either stop or give you the password so you can see whats going on. If he doesnt stop and if he dont want you to have the password then dump him beacause he's hiding something. If yall have been together that long at least give him a chance to stop doing that. ok
2006-08-24 03:58:58 · answer #7 · answered by V C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u trust him its kool if not well it might be jealousy . myspace is great but, does he really know everything about u? Even those dirty little secrets and would he be mad if he found out what u r hiding??? jealousy is a B so stop nagging!
2006-08-24 03:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by Wiseguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have diff accts and i do this stuff just for fun as well.. u should be worried when they have his # and addr and r tryna meet up him..
even if he deletes the acct he can make another one and u'll know nothing about it..
unless he's given u a reason to dump him, i say u stay w/ur man... but do let him know how this makes u feel...
2006-08-24 03:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok chill out. i believe him that its nothing to worry about. i been married 9 years and i have a "internet b/f" we just chat and have fun. he knows everything about me and i can discuss things with him and he dont judge me. its like i have a diary that can respond back to me. i can get manly advice, or he can tell me how my hubby is thinking on issues we may have. i will never meet him nor do i want to. but its nice having him as a friend.
2006-08-24 04:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by countrygalsline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋