I have only been asked out once and it was to a dance! Only the dances at my school suck! So the date sucked!
But no boys have made a move, I cant help but to think it is because I am not all pretty. I know once I get into high school alot (or none at all) of boys will ask me out. But I dont want to be alone for long! (Im in 7th grade) Alot of my friends have boyfriends, stalkers (not in a bad way like every one thinks), and crushes who follow them around sometimes. But not me!!!
2006-08-24 03:50:34 · 18 answers · asked by mecosfriend16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey you have alot to learn. You really need to quit worring about boys and concentrate on your school. When you do that and take care of you, then maybe you will have boys like you. I have a 13 year old daughter and the boys like her but she only has them as friends because she has learned from my mistakes. I got pregnant with her when I was 16 years old. I lost my fun years going out with friends and going to dances and prom. I had to stay home with the baby and finish school at home. It was really hard. I'm telling you, worry about school so you can become a great person then love and boys will come later.
2006-08-24 03:55:14 · answer #1 · answered by fabinnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was your age,I was exactly like you. No one liked me and boys teased me and I really dont have good memories of school, however when I got into High School, I started to not care about guys and put my mind on having fun. All of a sudden, the guys that use to tease me was asking me out. The moment you have self-confidence and not care about how many friends or boyfriends you have/had, you glow with cofidence and I think people notice that and thats what attracts people to a person.I wouldn't worry so much if I were you. Guys your age are thick as pig sh1t. They dont know anything. Dont worry about it, you'll laugh at this a few years from now.
2006-08-24 04:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jade22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you feeling not so good.
You have to ask yourself. Would you really want someone stalking you? Right now it seems like the worst thing in the world. Just get to know people and take it slow. Slow is good. You get a chance to learn. Right now you are going to school to prepare you for the next steps in your life. think about taking this time to study and focus on having fun with friends. I would wait till highschool. Give yourself a chance to see how guys change. Dont push yourself on any guy. You never want to let anyone know that you need them sooooo bad you cant stand it. Take time to love yourself first. And keep a eye out for whats out there. Your friends may have boyfriends and guys stalking them, but that doesnt mean they like it or that they are happy. You dont know what someone thinks until they come out and say it. Just give it time to do what life does. And you should never look to opposite sex for fullfilling loneliness. You will end up feeling more lonely once you realize it. Have confidence in Yourself. And know your beautiful, because people not just guys respond very well to that.
2006-08-24 04:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by dalia 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This to shall pass...
I know you do not wish to hear this
BUT concentrate on being , well, WELL!
Study, read, eat well, find hobbies, you enjoy.
Your confidence in yourself will be obvious and envious
Be prepared! And you'll be forced to 'time manage' as LOTSA guys and gals with want to share in what ever is making you
so busy and happy!!!
Make any sense to you??? And try to avoid poor choices, the easy choices, that' you will come to regret!
But you are only human AND will make a mistake or two. Just try to avoid the permament kind... and not repeat the same mistakes...
Hard time BUT others have survived it... try your best and the above AND you'll never have rergrets!
PS Life IS NOT what you see on TV or what you may be hearing or seeing or thinking...
It is way better BUT some work and assembly required!
2006-08-24 04:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry..I was in the same boat when I was in middle school. Your still young. Just be yourself and if guys don't like you for who you are, you should know their not worth it. I bet you are pretty. I think everyone has beauty in them. Time will tell, and I think that you will find a boyfriend in no time. Just worry about your studies and if a guy wants to date you, make sure its because of who you are and not what you look like cause that is all that matters..:)
2006-08-24 03:53:50 · answer #5 · answered by Justine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly before each little thing i spotted that your years of highschool are sort of off. you cant be a freshman and be turning 16. you would possibly want to should be a mushy-more desirable or junior..yet defiantly no longer a freshman. yet decrease back your problem....i imagine that you ought to get someone that you comprehend to make certain if the guy has a woman pal 1st off. 2d: in case you want him, bypass for it.... don't be shy (love waits for no guy, or on your case women persons) i continuously informed my self and pals round me that you ought to basically ask the man of you want them, do not carry decrease back because you're afraid of what they'll say or do. if its a definite then CONGRATS yet when its a no then bypass on its basically one guy, there is more desirable fish in the sea. you'll by no skill comprehend except you're attempting!!! do exactly it!! in the right you'd be at liberty you probably did no remember what the end result is... :D sturdy success
2016-11-27 02:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be the opposite the boys might be thinking she is so pretty that she will just say no to me. It really doesnt matter be yourself and ask a boy yourself what his plan are for the weekend
2006-08-24 03:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by Wiseguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait, the longer you yearn for a relationship, the longer it is before you have one. focus on a sport or a church activity that includes all types of genders and race. if you focus on the sport and that is when all the boys come around. stay calm the relationships will find you and not the other way around.
2006-08-24 03:56:50 · answer #8 · answered by qtsasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and DON'T ever be what boys want you to be, stay true to yourself, hun, you're only in in 7th grade! You have the rest of your life to worry about boys...one day, hopefully, you'll find yourself a man.
2006-08-24 03:53:10 · answer #9 · answered by Kiara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont wrry. ther r ppl like u that are way older. just give em some time. ther prolly is a guy who likes u, but hes prolly scared. for now get experience from watching your friends and you can learn a thing or two. thats how i did it. just be yourself and soon enuf ther will be "stalkers" and guys following you too.
2006-08-24 03:57:10 · answer #10 · answered by Fallen Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋