She's 13, im 15. She used to be all over me, well people started talkin about it, I kinda rushed her, and just different things happend, and now she seems she dont like me at all. She told her friends she has no feelings for me at all. But she told her mom that she is just scared, and I know her mom wouldnt lie to me. Her mom also said that if I really really like somone else, then i should go for it. But if I really really like her daughter, than i should be patient. I mean we barely barely even talk anymore, whats the deal?
I mean i've liked and many girls, but none like her. There is just something about her, and I know I sound crazy since I'm only 15, but i'm being dead honest. I would do ANYTHING to get her back, will she come back around? And what should I do? I mean because, it was obvious she liked me, she even sent me a song one time, and I think she was trying to say something to the effect that she likes me, just doesnt know what to do. But i missed the point. Well now it seems she has lost those feelings, for no apparent reason, so what should i do to get her back??
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But she seems to like me sometimes, like the way she looks at me, or she seems nervous, but other times, it seems like she dont care
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I mean it is so hard to move on, especially since i dont know for sure, if she has feelings for me or not. I mean i love everything about her. The way she smiles, her eyes, the way she laughs, everything about her is perfect. I feel so strongly toward her, way more than anyone else.
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And it's not like her mom said i dont have a chance. She said if a different girl really grabs my eye, one that I really reall like, then i should go for it. But if No one duz, and I am willing to wait for her daughter then i should contuinue to pursue it.
2006-08-24 03:30:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man[boy!!!] wait for other 10 to 12 years build your career, if it's true love she will wait otherwise it is wise to marry a girl who loves you as much as you love this girl.
2006-08-24 03:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by paritran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW
this is deep
OK well i almost cried reading this wow umm i am really sorry but you said you"rushed her" not a good idea so will not want to be a part of you life anymore exspecaily if this was her first real relationship this is really going to suck for u exspeicaly when school starts
wow i am really sorry but i think you should try to move on there are plenty of sweet girls out ther if you need to talk or you want to try to move on you know go ahed but you dont have a chance with this one
please talk to me i think i chould help you thru this i am her age so i chould probably relate email me i have a feeling that if you do you will get thru this :) nollielover575@yahoo.com it will be ok
2006-08-24 03:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by nollielover575 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.
1.GO TO HER AND ASK HER HOW SHE FEELS.
2.Ask her to be REALLY honest and she must'nt hold anything back.(This way she can feel comfortable telling you whats going on)
3.Tell her no matter what her feelings are for you, you will always be there for her.(This way you can remain friends and who knows maybe when she knows you better, she will change her mind)
4. Tell her how you feel and how much you like her. (Keep in mind that she might have given you the answer you dont want, but this way you are keeping the door open for in case she changes her mind or realises how special you are.
5.If she says she likes you, but she's scared - tell her you'll give her space, but really want her as a girlfriend.
Be ready for rejection, but just know that you must accept it and always be a friend for her, because in time she will realise how special you are.Hopefully, she tells you she likes you, maybe she's just scared of getting hurt.Good luck!!!
2006-08-24 03:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jade22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl is only 13. so, maybe she is not mature enough to understand true love. i think to her love is a feeling only. you on the otherhand has really fallen in love. but the person you love doesnot see love soo seriously as you do. she has some growing up to do. that is what her mother is meaning. that you should wait for her to grow up and when she understands the meaning of love, she might come to you. in the meantime you can wait or look for someone else. my advice is that continue your study and give her some space. now concentrate on studies and try to make something out of your life.when your girlfriend is ready, she wil come to you.
2006-08-24 04:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well both of ya'll are really young and I don't mean that in a sarcastic way, but you haven't really experienced much of life. I would give her her space but continue to be her friend, let her know you care, but don't put your life on hold for her. But keep that friendship alive. If it is meant to be it will work it self out. Good luck and be patient.
2006-08-24 03:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by TX girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever rush.Tell her exactly how you feel.Tell her you're sorry and all those things.
If she says yes then go for it if no then let the the story be.You know it could be that her mom wants you to date her and that her mom is lying.And please you're 15 no commitment at this age.you're too young.But I do believe you when you say she's the one.
2006-08-24 03:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by steve l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait if u really love her .she might have come to know about ur relationsip with other girls.either u shuld wait for her if ur love is true or leave her
2006-08-24 03:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by golu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really love her wait for her
and dont be a rusher boy and spoil ur relationship
2006-08-24 03:33:51 · answer #8 · answered by might 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone.
2006-08-24 03:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋