Ok, I know I sound horrible...I was good friends with this guy, he started to really like me, I didn't look at him like that and told him, we stayed friends anyway. I ended up dating his best friend and we kept it a secret but he found out and was hurt. But then we ended it anyways and everything went back to normal. Well, recently me and his friend hooked up again and I don't know if I should tell him bc I don't know how he'll take it. He has a gf now, but he still shows that he has feelings for me. If he finds out some other way, he might really hate me bc I said I would never lie to him again. I don't even really know what's going to happen between me and his friend this time around, so should I just wait and see and if there ends up being anything to tell, then I'll tell him. I mean, if it's just a little fling, he doesn't have to know, right?
2006-08-24 03:28:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A guy friend or a boyfriend?A guy friend-yes., a boyfriend-no
2006-08-24 03:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by steve l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be in your best interest to tell him as soon as you talk to him again. Sometimes keeping something like that will hurt you more then help you. When you talk to him be very honest and truthful and don't leave any small details out. If he is any type of he guy to accept an apology then that could be a starting point, if he tells you he wishes not to speak to you again then it accept it and move on. I am sure you meant no harm but sometimes guys see it differently then the girls do. If you are going to date his best friend again then you need to tell his best friend what you plans are then there will be no surprises later. If his best friend does not understand then he is definately not the one for you. I am sure at some point the two guys will come across each other, if they split as friends then don't blame yourself because in that instance it may not be your fault.
2006-08-24 03:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not really his business who you sleep with...its not your fault that he has feelings for you...God Bless You..I hope you find a man that wants to marry you,instead of an on again off again fling..you are better than that
2006-08-24 03:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by Coo Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um dont tell him why do u care abt him if u dont lyk him in tht sort of way FORGET ABT IT he is just a friend rite?carry on wid ur life anyways he already has a gf y wud he care abt u
2006-08-24 03:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by fRe@k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes definately, especially if you want to die young and ugly
2006-08-24 03:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think his friend might tell him?
2006-08-24 03:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't have to know...Take it to the grave girl...
2006-08-24 03:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with this situation, what he doesnt know wont hurt him
2006-08-24 03:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by misstrell504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he'll get over it
2006-08-24 03:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by erin♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just a friend, he shouldnt get that mad
2006-08-24 03:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋